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Gray Divorce, Divorce Over 50

March 12, 2017Uncategorizeddivorce over 50, gray divorce, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, trading up in marriage, women in Dickinson North Dakotaname withheld

I went back to my home in Idaho after being gone for 1-1/2 years. The first evening that I was home, I went to a bar & restaurant that overlooks a river, to see a friend of mine who manages the bar & restaurant Monday through Thursday. He has been managing this place for twenty years.

I was shocked to not see him there, he no longer works there, I couldn’t believe it. One of the few remaining employees that I know, told me that his wife had divorced him.

I was very upset about this. I knew him very well. I would have never expected his wife to divorce him. I will tell a little bit about him, to explain how I feel about this.

His father was an architect from this town, who had five sons and one daughter. They lived in a big house downtown across the street from a city park. All the kids played every sport there was, throughout the year. The boys particularly liked football and hockey.

The kids were popular in High School, partied a lot, it was the 1970s. My friend joined the Marines after High School. After getting out of the Marine Corps, my friend was a police officer in California. He later got a college degree and his teaching certificate. In his late 20s, he became head of security for a very large computer technology company, with his own office, company vehicle, expense account, and high salary.

His brothers became teachers and coaches in their home town. Visiting his home town, he met a women who was a teacher and coach at the same school his brother coached at. He and this teacher started dating. He left his high paying, high level corporate job to return to his home town to marry this teacher.

There were not a lot of job openings in this town, but he wanted to support his family, so he took a job as a bartender and bar manager, which is not what he had been doing. He became good at this job, and he was well liked by the customers and the restaurant owner. This is why he worked there for twenty years.

He was funny, entertaining, and he had a good personality. Women that he had gone to High School with, women who were regular customers, women who were just in town overnight, and women employees, would see if he was interested in going home with them, but he would politely refuse.

He was the most proud of his wife and two daughters of anyone I have ever met. The one fault that he had, was always talking about how well his wife and daughters were doing. His wife had won several state awards as a teacher, several state awards as a coach, and more than several state championships.

He spent all of his time and energy focusing on his family. He made sure that his daughters were doing well with their school work, practicing and training effectively for sports, and giving a complete effort in everything that they did. His daughters did very well in school, and did very well in sports. They both got athletic scholarships to college. His two daughters never got into any trouble at all.

When he got home from work at 2:00 a.m., he would begin cooking things like homemade meatballs. His daughters would wake up from the smell of cooking early in the morning and come into the kitchen to eat whatever it was. It didn’t hurt them, they burned so many calories. His wife on the other hand, was about fifty pounds overweight, and he may have been partly to blame, because he was a good cook.

He loved his wife and was so proud of his wife, though she was quite overweight and no longer attractive. One of the reasons why his wife had let her own appearance go, was because she put so much effort and energy into teaching and coaching, she didn’t spend any time taking care of herself.

My friend and his wife each made the same amount of money. My friend would seek additional ways to make money, like painting houses, in order have more money for his family. I once let him borrow a very nice stainless steel .357 Smith & Wesson revolver, which he said he wanted because it was what he used when he was a police officer. I offered to sell it to him for a low price, but he said he couldn’t buy it because his family needed the money at that time.

He would use his vacation time when his wife had state championship games out of town, in order to support his wife and her team. He would spend his money on purchasing team shirts for all the girls on the team, and taking all the girls on the team out for dinner at a nice restaurant. (Not all the girls would have had money for team shirts, or to go out to dinner, so that is why he paid for everyone.)

After both his daughters were in college with athletic scholarships, his wife was ready to move on. I read a local newspaper article about her retirement from the local school system, and her moving away to become an athletic director. There was elaboration on all of her accomplishments, and the success of her daughters, but not one mention of her husband. I could see from the photograph, that she had lost about 50 pounds now, and she was down to a normal size.

I have my thoughts about all of this, but I wanted to read other articles about why this might have happened. Several authors that I read, stated that divorce over 5o is the fastest growing category of divorce. One female author that I read, stated that the AARP research showed that 66% of divorces over 50 were initiated by women. This female author did her own research, and stated that the number one reason for divorce by women over 50 was emotional abuse.

I think that a valid reason for women to initiate divorce from their husband would be: cheating, gambling away money, alcoholism, drug addiction, pornography addiction, physical abuse, child abuse, mental illness, criminal activity, refusal to work, not helping with household work, not taking care of their physical health, and emotional abuse.

In the case of my friend, I don’t think that anything on the above list occurred. I think that his wife was just interested in beginning a new life without him, a more promising life, a more exciting life, a more adventurous life. And, keeping her retirement pension all to herself. He would not have an employer paid retirement pension.

If my friend had wanted to, he could have been having a more exciting and adventurous life, all along, I saw many women offer this to him. But he was devoted to his wife and his two daughters. If he had wanted to, he could have planned some scheme five years ago, that when his daughters left home to go to college, he could have had a new career all set and ready to go. But he did not plan on leaving his wife.

It is all over now. The harm has already been done, and it will never be undone. Twenty-five years of Christmas, Thanksgiving, and Easter together with each other and their children, will never happen again, it has all been ruined. I don’t think that his wife will ever find anyone that was so interested in her, cared about her so much, and was willing to support her so much, and proved this over twenty-five years. I don’t know what she was thinking.

There may have been another man that no one knows about, or she may find another man. Although another man may seem more exciting and appealing, he may need to borrow money from her, he may be deeply in debt, he may be physically abusive, he may be emotionally abusive, he may have a crazy ex-wife that won’t go away, he may have a psychotic ex-girlfriend that keeps showing up, horrible children, a drug addiction, alcoholism, Hepatitis C, Herpes…

People now, are trying to get a better deal. It is not that their marriage is bad or that their spouse is bad, they are just trying to see if they can have more fun, more excitement, and trade up for a better life.

Warning About Patterson Lake In Dickinson, North Dakota

February 16, 2017UncategorizedLiving in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, Patterson Lake in Dickinson North Dakota, rape in Dickinson North Dakota, recreation in Dickinson North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, things to do in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakotaname withheld

In May of 2011 when I first came to Dickinson, North Dakota to work in the oil field, I began going to Patterson Lake on the weekends. Patterson Lake is just a few miles from downtown Dickinson. During that summer, on the north shore of the lake where they had public parking, a beach, boat ramp, cook out grills, and campground, there would be several hundred people on Saturday and Sunday.

When I returned to Dickinson in May of 2013, I was disappointed to see that on every weekend that summer there were fewer than fifty people at Patterson Lake beach. It was kind of lonely. I talked to other people to ask what happened, what changed. I came to the conclusion that the Dickinson State University girls became tired of being ogled by both the out of state oil field workers and the local men, that the out of state oil field workers became tired of the locals, and the locals became tired of the out of state oil field workers. The DSU students, the out of state oil field workers, and the locals all quit going to Patterson Lake in the summer.

I still enjoyed going to Patterson Lake. I would sit in a beach chair and read, swim, cook out with friends, go kayaking, and walk my dog. But often times there were very few people at Patterson Lake. On the north shore of the lake, the paved public parking area had the capacity for approximately six hundred vehicles, and there would be only six vehicles.

In 2013, I began to see some things that I didn’t like at Patterson Lake. I would park in the nearly completely vacant main parking lot on the north shore of the lake, and walk east along the trails and along the shore line to the end of the park to follow the trail loop. At the very last parking area, about 1/2 mile from the main parking area, fairly often there would be a parked vehicle with a couple of Hispanic males in it. At the very last parking area, I never once in the past four years saw these people who parked like this walking, exercising, bicycling, playing frisbee, or cooking out. What I did see, was other vehicles enter the park not slowing down for anything and drive 35 mph to 40 mph all the way back to the last parking area, and then leave within five minutes driving 35 mph all the way back out of the park, looking straight ahead not at the scenery, and not slowing down for anything.

There was no reason for adult males to be sitting in a parked car at the most distant and remote area of the park, and having other vehicles drive fast through the park to get back there, and then quickly leave, other than for drug dealing, or other illegal activity. I didn’t like walking the trails and shore line, and on the way back come across this activity. I felt like talking to the police about it, but I believed that I wouldn’t be telling them anything that they didn’t already know.

Sometime in 2016, improvements were made to the north side of Patterson Lake. Two new additional children’s play grounds were constructed adjacent to the main parking area. A wide concrete path was constructed for walking, rollerblading, and bike riding that makes a big loop through park. In the past, most of the people that I saw walking through the park, were exercising large dogs. Now with the new wide concrete path and new playgrounds, I have seen many more women and women with children using the park.

I had been concerned about women walking the park by themselves in the past, because of the strange males that would park and sit in their cars in the most distant and remote area of the park. When I saw more women and women with children coming to the park and walking the new concrete paths that lead out to the distant and remote areas of the park, I was even more worried, because these women seemed to be under the impression that it was safe now. No, it is not entirely safe. The concrete paths are only thirty feet from the woods in areas of the park where the users are far from the parking lot, so far they can’t be seen, and so far they can’t be heard. It is possible for a male to wait in the woods, leap out, and grab someone and drag them back into the woods, without there being any witnesses.

In the Fall of 2016, I observed an adult male at Patterson Lake that was behaving very strangely. He was not relaxing, resting, exercising, or recreating, he was acting very agitated. He would drive to an area of the park, look, then drive to another area of the park look, then drive on, until he made it back to the main parking area. He got out of his car and behaved strangely, he acted like he was mentally ill.

The next time that I went to Patterson Lake, I parked in the main parking area and I began writing checks to pay bills, looking up from time to time. There was no one else on the north shore of Patterson Lake at that time. After about fifteen minutes, I saw on the south shore of Patterson Lake something splashing in the water like a person or a large animal. I got out of my vehicle to walk on the new concrete path down to the edge of the north shore of the lake to see what it was in the water on the south side. I stood there and I looked and I looked, and all of a sudden about seventy feet from me, here comes that strange mentally ill man jumping out of the bushes right beside the concrete path. I had spooked him, he had thought that I had spotted him hiding in the bushes, but I hadn’t known he was there, he startled me.

I can only guess why he was hiding in the bushes right beside the concrete path. I wrote down the license plate number of his vehicle, a description of his vehicle, a description of him, and how he had been acting, and I gave this in writing to a Sheriffs officer. After I left, I believe that the Sheriff officer probably ran the license plate number to see if this person had been convicted of any type of assault in the past.

I want women who visit Patterson Lake or plan on visiting Patterson Lake, to not get on the trails, shoreline, or concrete paths alone, and follow them out into a remote and hidden area. I have been going to Patterson Lake regularly for more than four years, and I have seen strange men parked in the remote areas, and, hiding in the bushes.

Here is a video of Patterson Lake in Dickinson, North Dakota:

Women From Grant County, North Dakota

February 10, 2017UncategorizedLiving in Dickinson, North Dakota, living in Grant County North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Grant County North Dakotaname withheld

Several months ago I wrote a blog post titled “Reasons Why The Women In Dunn County Are Prettier And Healthier Than The Women In Dickinson”. In that blog post, I explained that Dunn County was a completely rural county, with most of the people living out in the middle of no where on large farms and ranches. The children have to walk 1/4 mile to the end of the driveway in the morning to wait for the school bus when it is 0 degrees Fahrenheit. After school, the children have to walk 1/4 mile back up the driveway and begin their farm chores and taking care of farm animals. They also have to do housework like cleaning, vacuuming, doing laundry, and help getting dinner started.

The children have to do farm chores and housework because their mothers and fathers typically both have full time jobs, and their mothers and fathers have to do farm work when they get home too. Because all of the children and women have to do so much physical activity and work, they are in very good physical condition. They are not overweight because they get so much exercise, they don’t sit around eating and watching television all day. They don’t eat junk food, and there aren’t any fast food restaurants in the completely rural county.

Grant County, North Dakota is very similar to Dunn County, almost identical. Grant County is 1,666 square miles, and only has a population of 2,400. The towns are Carson, Elgin, New Leipzig, Leith, Raleigh, and Heil. Have you heard of these town? Probably not very often, or not ever.

For about two years, I have been distracted by a very polite, friendly, healthy, good looking young woman who works at a business in Dickinson. She is different from the other young women in Dickinson because she is not crazy, trashy, low class, and mean. In order to repay her for her politeness and friendliness, I have not bothered her at work by trying to talk to her about anything other than business, although I would have liked to. I did not want to delay her in her work, and possibly/probably make her uncomfortable and embarrassed.

Recently when I was looking at Facebook, I saw this young lady on Facebook. I looked at her Facebook profile. I had not known that she was from Grant County. At first, I thought that Grant County included Beaulah, which is northeast of Dickinson. Grant County is southeast of Dickinson. Finding out that this polite, friendly, healthy, good looking young woman was from Grant County explained a lot, and was to me, the final piece of a puzzle.

In the more than four years that I have lived in Dickinson, with the shortage of women, lack of attractive women, and problem women, the very few decent respectable young women that I have met were from Amidon population 20, Beulah population 3,200, Dunn County population 5,000, and Grant County population 2,400.

I have already written at least four blog posts about Miss Rodeo North Dakota Codi Miller and her sister Kit from Amidon. This young lady from Grant County that I had to do business with from time to time for the last couple of years, is very much like Codi and Kit, in just about every way. It wasn’t until I saw her Facebook page that everything became so clear.

When I wrote the blog post titled “Reasons Why The Women In Dunn County Are Prettier And Healthier Than The Women In Dickinson”, I wrote that the families living out in the middle of no where were able to raise their children without interference, and without bad influences. I have already described that all the family members are constantly working and busy doing physical activity, not sitting around eating junk food and watching television. The mothers, fathers, farm animals, and farm work are the main influence in each others lives, not television, not movies, not things from the city like meth, heroin, crack, drug dealers, pimps, trashy women, lesbians, gays, or transgenders. The children learn to listen to their parents, what is right and wrong, what is respectable and what isn’t, what is good and what is bad, how to behave, what is expected of them, and how to work.

In Florida and in Idaho, I have seen and met children who grew up on a farm, that got into every kind of trouble there is: drugs, crime, sexual promiscuity, self destructiveness. But this seemed to have always been the direct result of the children becoming influenced by bad children and bad people that their parents were unaware of. Fortunately, for places like Amidon and Grant County, there aren’t any bad children and bad people that the parents are unaware of, there aren’t any unknown outside influences ruining their children.

I wish that I would have known and understood earlier in my life what women are like who grow up in completely rural areas like Amidon, Dunn County, and Grant County. I think that I understand now why they want to get married early, with the intention of it being a life-long marriage, and just stay home out in the middle of no where at the end of a dirt road.

IDF Women Of Israel On Facebook

February 6, 2017UncategorizedIDF Women of Israel, IDF Women of Israel on Facebook, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakotaname withheld

I recommend that everyone look at and read the Facebook page IDF Women of Israel.

In Israel, when women reach the age of 18 years, military service is mandatory for at least two years. I like this.

No matter who they are, they are drafted into the Israeli Defense Forces. They all must complete boot camp training, with all the women together on a military base, living in barracks. When the drill instructor wakes them up at 4:00 a.m., or 5:00 a.m., they must jump out of their bunks and stand at attention. If they are ordered to get dressed, get geared up, and get into formation outside, they have just several minutes to get out there.

In the Israeli military, the women either already know, or learn quickly, that they can’t take an hour to get ready, or not show up on time, now means NOW! Not only do they have to get outside with their rifle, helmet, body armor, and pack immediately, they are going on an eight mile hike, whether they want to or not. I am sure that they don’t like it, but they do it.

By the time their boot camp training is completed, which I believe their basic training is six weeks, they can all run for several miles with all of their packs, body armor, and weapons in the desert heat. You can look at their pictures on the IDF Women of Israel Facebook page and see that they are all in very good shape and are proud of themselves.

During their basic training, they have all learned how to disassemble, clean, and reassemble their handguns and automatic rifles. They have learned how to accurately shoot their handguns and rifles. Some of them qualify as marksmen or sharpshooter. They have all been trained in hand-to-hand fighting, performing guard duty, and going on patrol.

The IDF Women of Israel, after completing their basic training, are assigned to patrol duty and guard duty all along the border in Israel, which they perform very competently and effectively. Any enemy of Israel knows that they are just as likely to get shot by an IDF woman guarding the border as an IDF man guarding the border.

What the IDF Women of Israel have that most American women will never have, is the knowledge that they can jump out of bed, get their body armor on, get their pack on, grab their weapon, and run to their duty post, ready and able to shoot an intruder. They are not scared or faint of heart in doing it, they have done it hundreds of times, and they will not hesitate to shoot someone. Many of the IDF Women go on to have advanced training in hand-to-hand fighting, sniper training, special weapons, explosives, reconosaince, surveillance, and special missions. All IDF Women are expected to be able to be recalled to active duty until the age of 38.

At first when I looked at the IDF Women on Facebook, I was impressed that they were all in such good physical shape, and were happy and confident after completing basic training. Then when I saw and read about their training and duty assignments, I could see that they were very competent. I was glad for them that they were able to fight and shoot to defend themselves. They were trained enough and had enough practice that they would be able to fight and shoot for the rest of their lives. Keep in mind that all women in Israel are required to do this.

In the United States, especially for women that don’t want to do it, I would enjoy it being mandatory for them to complete basic training, where they have to jump out of bed, get all their gear on in a couple of minutes, and hike eight miles through the desert, every day for six weeks. To learn how to fight and how to shoot. And be required to perform guard duty and border patrol for two years.

I Repeat, Problem Women Moving To Dickinson, North Dakota

January 1, 2017Uncategorizedcrazy women in Dickinson North Dakota, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, waitresses in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Watford City North Dakotaname withheld

On New Year’s Eve, I was at a bar & restaurant in Dickinson, North Dakota. I have known the bar & restaurant owner, the manager, the bartender, and the wait staff for two years. It was a busy night, all of the customers were pretty well behaved, there were very few problems, and almost everyone had a good time.

When it got to be close to 1:00 a.m., it became closing time, with last call for alcohol, and then shortly after that it became time for the customers to leave. I had agreed to stay to drive a wait staff person home when they got off work. The restaurant had cleared out completely, but here came this young lady that I knew, back to get her coat off the back of a chair.

This young lady that came back to the empty restaurant to get her coat off the back of a chair, had been one of my biggest inspirations in writing the blog post about six months ago titled, “Problem Women Moving To Dickinson, North Dakota”. I had had an incident with her about a year ago, where she had wanted and was attempting to remove bottles of alcohol from a bar, where she did not work, when the bar was left unattended.

I did not want to start anything with her this night, I believe that she is crazy, I did not want any confrontation, so I turned the other way to not even look at her. After about forty five seconds, she did not exit the restaurant, and I turned around, and she wasn’t there. I looked all around the room, and she wasn’t there. I knew that she didn’t leave the restaurant, was she hiding in the restaurant? I couldn’t believe it.

I started looking under tables, and when I looked up, I saw her very quickly leaving the restaurant through the exit, and the bar & restaurant owner coming out of the stock room behind the bar. I said to the bar & restaurant owner, “Did you find her in the stock room?” The owner said that yes, he did find her in the stock room.

At this time the manager came over. I explained to the bar & restaurant owner, and to the manager, that this is the second time that I have seen this young lady attempt to stay behind at a bar after closing, and remove alcohol when the bar was left unattended. I gave them her name. The manager asked the owner, “What did she say to you when you found her in the stock room behind the bar?” The owner replied, “She said that she wanted to buy some alcohol off-sale.” The owner said that he just told her to leave and go to a liquor store.

I had had a problem with this young lady the last time I was around her when a bar was left unattended, and I had not forgotten her. She was very rude and inconsiderate. She was from New York. I had found out some of the places that she had worked in Dickinson as a waitress. People told me that she was nutty, one person told me that she had caused a tremendous amount of problems, but no one told me that she had stolen alcohol. I can’t believe that she hasn’t tried to remove alcohol from bars elsewhere in Dickinson, but I can believe that she might not have been caught yet.

In my blog post titled “Problem Women Moving To Dickinson, North Dakota”, I explained that women can make more money in New York, Arizona, Florida, and Texas as a waitress, bartender, hotel clerk, bank teller, or administrative assistant, and live in less expensive housing, with a better social environment. Why would they want to move to Dickinson where it is so cold, and housing was so expensive? The answer was, there was such a shortage of workers in Dickinson, that employers did not ask a lot of questions, or do much of a background check. If employers would have talked to some of these women for even five minutes, they would have noticed that they were crazy. If employers would have contacted previous places where they worked, they probably would have been given some hints about the things these women had done in the past.

I am very,very angry about this, because not only is there nothing to do in Dickinson, and a shortage of women, the women that you do come in contact with in the bars, restaurants, stores, and banks, they are fucking crazy! So yes, I am trying to point out this crazy woman who moved here to Dickinson, because they found out what she was like where she came from, and now she is doing her same crazy shit here, and probably her co-workers have been blamed for, or are under suspicion for what she has done.

Why So Much Complaining About Dickinson? Why So Much Complaining About Women In Dickinson?

December 24, 2016Uncategorizedcomplaining about Dickinson North Dakota, complaining about women in Dickinson North Dakota, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, moving to Watford City North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Watford City North Dakotaname withheld

In my previous blog post, I wrote that I wanted to get out of Dickinson for a day or two, and I drove to the Prairie Knights Casino south of Mandan. I was shocked and disappointed. Is this the best that North Dakota has to offer? This place was much worse than Dickinson, and I was trying to escape how bad things are in Dickinson.

There are many readers that don’t understand what I am complaining about. Dickinson sucks, compared to what? Women in Dickinson are horrible, compared to what? I can answer this.

When I was living in a different state about ten years ago, I met a lady who was very wealthy. It was not difficult to meet people who were very successful, very educated, very famous, or very wealthy because people in the town socialized with each other and were very civil, social, healthy, active, adventuresome, outgoing, and fun loving. There was very little crime, discontent, or violence.

This woman that I met, she and her husband had had a company with 25,000 employees in the United States and different countries. There was a book written about her husband because of his influence, innovation, and success. This woman has many famous friends and associates whose names you would recognize. But she also liked to spend time with me. I have been friends with her for about ten years now.

She would invite me to stay with her at one of her homes in a resort town. In this resort town, her house was in a private gated community where the least expensive house was $700,000. These were all vacation homes owned by famous celebrities, politicians, and very wealthy people. The buy-in to be a member of the country club was about $100,000.

Her neighbors and friends were mostly nice to me. Her sons were nice and pleasant to me, they liked me, one of her sons had a degree in engineering like me, and was valedictorian when he graduated from high school like me. Her daughter was also valedictorian when she graduated from high school, and she had graduated from law school. I would play with her daughter until she would become irritated, which her mother and brothers enjoyed, until her daughter would complain to her mother to make me stop. At which time the mother would announce, “Now I had planned on us all going over to the club for dinner, but we’re not going unless you quit fighting, and you can’t fight during dinner.” Then we would all shut up and behave.

At the private club on the golf course, where members of the public were not allowed, they weren’t even allowed in the community, we would drive up, and the valet would take the vehicle. The staff would greet the family, and we would be escorted to the best table on the veranda. The sun would be setting over the mountains behind the landscaped and meticulously maintained grounds. The staff would come and light the outdoor gas heaters so that the women would not be chilly. The men were all required to wear blazers, dinner jackets, or suit jackets so they were not as likely to become cold as the women.

The women would all order wine, but I would not, in order to not become a jerk. They would all insist that I have wine, but I wouldn’t. I would always order the fillet mignon. I had had a navy blazer or two which were good enough, but just for something fun to do, the wealthy lady that liked me gave me several Armani suits, and had me go to her tailor to have them fitted. This was probably as much for her sake, her daughter’s sake, and her friends sake, so that I looked better.

I would go and visit this wealthy lady at other places where she had a home, would go out with her to very exclusive resorts, and be introduced to wealthy women that she thought would like me.

To answer one of the questions that I said that I was going to answer, no these women weren’t like the women in Dickinson. Some were doctors, some were lawyers, some were famous, some were divorced from famous people. They had traveled around the world before they were even adults. They had several homes, sometimes yachts, sometimes planes or jets. These women were generally polite, friendly, and civil toward me. So no, I don’t like it when trashy women bartenders and trashy women waitresses in Dickinson can’t even be polite, they are really wretched, and I haven’t been able to explain it to the reader until now.

Right now, I don’t want to go on and on about going to people’s multi-million dollar homes high in the hills above cities, with their private swimming pools, guest houses, outdoor kitchens, new Ferraris, Jaguars, and Mercedes in every garage bay, private art collections, rare book collections. The owners being friendly, social, outgoing, communicative, educated, intelligent people, and entertaining hosts. Dickinson is very poor, dirty, backwards, trashy, low class, ignorant, uneducated, and ugly in comparison. This answers the question Dickinson sucks compared to what?

The very wealthy lady that liked me, was born and grew up in a town like Dickinson. Once a week, on a Saturday night, her father would halfway fill a metal wash tub with hot water. She would bathe in this tub first, then her stepmother would bathe in this tub second, then her father would bathe in this same water last. They had an outhouse, no indoor toilet. When she was about ten, she had to kill a rattlesnake that had gotten into the outhouse when she went to use it.

She left home when she was sixteen to live as a boarder with a family in town. An older girlfriend went to a beauticians school in Denver, and got her to do the same thing. They lived together, and worked together. At night they would both go to the most exclusive resort hotel in town. She and her girlfriend were welcome there because they were friendly and polite with the male gentlemen.

This was a very expensive, exclusive resort hotel. Gentlemen would like the company and entertainment of nice young ladies. As long as she and her girlfriend were polite, civil, pleasant, sociable, agreeable, and didn’t cause problems, they were welcome. She was not the most beautiful girl, or the most intelligent, but she sure as hell knew that she had better get along and have a good attitude if she was ever going to make it out.

Because she was so agreeable and reasonable, someone introduced her to a nice young man, a salesman. Conversely, since this salesman was a nice young man, he was introduced to this young lady. This young salesman was very intelligent, knowledgeable, perceptive, well behaved, and well mannered. His father owned the small company that he worked for.

These two became married, and stuck together, through the closing of the family business, a new career, a relocation to a different state, another new career, job disputes, formation of a new company, and eventually great wealth and success. Their children were young when the new company was formed. They have only just a few memories of there ever being a shortage of money when they were young. Each of the three children were able to focus on school and they each graduated first in their high school class. Each of the three children went to very expensive good universities, where they met their wives, and husband.

Everyone only knew this lady as the wealthy widow of a very famous successful business man. Everyone probably just assumed that she had been a young debutante from a wealthy family, and that she was a trophy wife. She was content to let everyone believe that.

The reason that she liked me, besides me being handsome and funny, was because I was partly rough and partly not rough. I would try to be nice and polite, especially in public, which was required. But she was like me, just no one knew.

Managing A Bar Or Restaurant In Dickinson, North Dakota

December 18, 2016Uncategorizedbars in Dickinson North Dakota, being a bartender in Dickinson North Dakota, being a waitress in Dickinson North Dakota, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, managing a bar in Dickinson North Dakota, managing a restaurant in Dickinson North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, restaurants in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakotaname withheld

Most bars and restaurants have similar management in Dickinson, North Dakota. First, what the manager is looking for, is a waitress or bartender with many jobs of short duration. With many jobs of short duration, there is no need to contact previous employers, because the employee obviously excelled.

Another thing that the bar or restaurant manager is looking for, is a waitress or bartender who is a first or second year student at Dickinson State University, and they are obviously better than most of their customers. Even if they are an elementary education major in their first or second year at Dickinson State University with an enrollment of about 1,000 students, they are far superior to customers with a degree in business or engineering from a university with 50,000 students. You know, they are 19 or 20 years old, and they have been around, done it all, far more so than any of the 40 year old or 50 year old customers, who are losers.

Another good thing about hiring a 19 or 20 year old Dickinson State University student, besides the prestige, with DSU in the news for being investigated for fraudulently awarding degrees and financial fraud, the DSU student can let all of the customers know that this job is not important to them, and that they would rather not be there.

What the manager of a bar or restaurant in Dickinson, North Dakota is looking for, is a waitress or bartender that does not want to be there, and that they say it out loud, and say it often. It is good that the waitress or bartender either talk about things that they wish they were doing in front of the customers, or talk about their problems.

Although it is good for a waitress or bartender to talk in front of customers, it is not good for them to talk to customers. The ratio of men to women in Dickinson is about 3:1. Most of the customers in a bar or restaurant in Dickinson will be men who do not have families in Dickinson. Because these men work all day, do not have families in Dickinson, and there is a shortage of women in Dickinson, the waitress or bartender is probably the only woman the customer will speak to all day. Therefore, it is good that the waitress or bartender not talk to the customer, and walk away, out of sight is the best. That way, even if the customer needs mustard, ketchup, silver ware, or a drink, the waitress or bartender is not around. It is important to not be available if the customer wants something.

There are all kinds of good ways for a waitress or bartender to not be available to customers: going to the bathroom, going outside to smoke, going out to their car to talk on the phone, socializing with friends, and eating. It is important to ignore customers as much as possible. It is very important to not be hospitable or provide good service in the hospitality and service industry, just ask any bar or restaurant manager in Dickinson.

In order to be a good waitress or bartender in Dickinson, you have to not be good at just one thing, you need to combine the things mentioned above. For instance, if you seat a customer at a table, you need to walk far away from them, turn your back to them, and become occupied with texting on your phone. This accomplishes several things, you are not talking to them, you are not available to them, you are showing that you are more important than them, you are showing that you don’t want to be at work, and you are ignoring them.

Once you have had many waitressing and bartending jobs of short duration, complete less than three years of college at some place like DSU, get a DUI, have a drug or alcohol addiction, and have caused several restaurants to go out of business, then you will be ready to manage one of the bars or restaurants in Dickinson.

List Of Attractive Women In Dickinson, North Dakota

November 16, 2016UncategorizedLiving in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, Miss North Dakota USA, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, moving to Watford City North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, shortage of women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Belfield North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Dunn County North Dakota, women in Watford City North Dakotaname withheld

Recently I have written three blog posts about Miss North Dakota USA, making comments, recommendations, speculations, and criticisms. I thought that maybe I should shut up about the pageant, not because my comments are stupid, but because I complain so much about the scarcity of attractive women in Dickinson. One of the few things that may help inspire women in North Dakota to care about their appearance, bearing, and demeanor is the Miss North Dakota USA pageant. If anything, I should have nothing but praise for the Miss North Dakota USA pageant.

In writing the three recent blog posts about Miss North Dakota USA, I thought about the contestants, their work, the competition, how they would be judged, what the judges would be looking for, the goal of the organization. I searched for, and read the twelve page Miss USA Pageant Contract, which gave me a tremendous amount of insight into what the organization was looking for.

The Miss USA pageant was looking for a woman who would always be a positive role model for other women, would make people think highly of the competition and the organization, and would not damage the reputation of the competition and the organization. The end goal, it appears, is to effectively promote women and women’s interests.

In addition to me writing comments about the Miss North Dakota USA pageant which are possibly not completely helpful, I very often write about the scarcity of attractive women in Dickinson. In order to be fair and truthful, I want to acknowledge that there are some attractive women in Dickinson. Below I have written a list, in alphabetical order, of women in Dickinson who meet the criteria of attractiveness, civility, respectability, demeanor, bearing, and dress:

Mrs. Judy Anderson, Dickinson (the accountant)

Miss Haley Anderson, Dickinson

Mrs. Kjersti Armstrong, Dickinson

Mrs. Kathryn Helgaas Burgum, Bismarck

Mrs. Bethany Devlin, Watford City

Miss Mariah Ficek, Dickinson

Mrs. Kathy Fisher, Dickinson

Mrs. Brenda Fong, Dickinson

Mrs. Marinna Marsh Fuchs, Dickinson

Dr. Nicole Marie Wilson-Hall, Dickinson

Miss McKenzie Joy Hilsen, Dickinson

Miss Geliza Hoese, Dickinson

Miss Jessica Hoherz, Dickinson

Miss Kaycee Hutzenbiler, Belfield

Miss Megan Jorgenson, Dickinson

Miss Jordan Kass, New England

Mrs. Marchell Kubas, South Heart

Miss JoLea Kukowski, Dickinson

Miss Melissa McDermott, Dickinson

Miss Codi Miller, Amidon

Miss Kit Miller, Amidon

Miss Molly Miller, Dickinson

Mrs. Bernice Mueller, Dickinson

Mrs. Janilyn Murtha, Dickinson

Miss Tracy Nash, Dickinson

Miss Kayla Paluck, Dickinson

Mrs. Kamal Patel, Dickinson

Mrs. Kristi Schwartz, Dickinson

Miss Ali Sorenson, Dickinson

Mrs. Jessie Veeder, Watford City

Mrs. Lindsey Ybarra, Watford City

Miss Kira Zastoupil, Dickinson

No, you can’t be removed from my list. Keep up the good work.

I may be able to add a few more women to my list in the future. The attractive women in Dunn County hide 95% of the time. There I go again, they aren’t “hiding”, they are just staying at home.

Update 11/25/2016: Many of the women on the list above remind me of the IDF women of Israel. I recommend that the women on the above list, and the readers, go look at IDFwomenofisrael on Facebook.

Looking At Israeli Women On Facebook

November 14, 2016Uncategorizedattractive Israeli women on Facebook, Israeli Defense Women of Israel, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, nothing to do in Dickinson North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, Sharon Rozenfeld Beersheba Israel, women in Dickinson North Dakotaname withheld

Yet again I am telling you that there is very little to do in Dickinson, North Dakota. There is a shortage of women, and a scarcity of attractive women. I have written many times that living in Dickinson is like being in prison, though I haven’t done anything wrong. Every day now, several times a day, I think to myself that I can’t believe I am living my last years like this. Other places, and other times in history people have been caught in a wasteland like this, famines and wars, but this is different. The people who live in western North Dakota, and the mostly poor and uneducated people who moved here, can’t even name what is missing. I sure as hell can, and it is painful and miserable.

While watching one of my neighbors continuing to lose his mind on Facebook, and threatening to kill all of his neighbors every day, I saw that he had some very, very attractive women “friends” on Facebook. I looked at all of his very attractive female “friends” on Facebook, and many of them were in Israel. I don’t want to talk about this neighbor, but to explain briefly, he was going crazy, several of us neighbors tried to get him help, the police had to be called many times, and we all look at his Facebook page to follow his posts about killing all of us.

Escaping the misery in Dickinson, North Dakota, I looked at some beautiful women in Israel. My most favorite woman now, probably even more favorite than Marinna Marsh, even more favorite than Codi Miller, is Sharon Rozenfeld in Beersheba, Israel. You can go look at her on Facebook too, and you will see what I am talking about. Sharon has about twenty photographs of herself, and I love every one of them, except the cyclops one.

Her hiking photo shows that she is skinny, rugged, and tom boyish. Her U.S. Embassy photo is my absolute favorite, she is wearing the most beautiful dress that I have ever seen, and she looks glamorous and sophisticated. Her photo in her Israeli military uniform shows another aspect of her. Her mirror photo accidentally on purpose shows her breasts and she is very sexually attractive. Each photo shows something different about her.

In Israel, military service is compulsory for both men and women. Because the Israelis are completely surrounded and greatly outnumbered, they take military preparedness, training, and military duty very seriously. From an early age, all Israeli men and women are taught that their very survival depends on all men and women training and performing with 100% effort and commitment. Sharon Rozenfeld, though she is as beautiful as a glamour model, and she may be a glamour model, she had to spend years as a teenager, out in the desert, tearing down assault rifles and pistols, reassembling them; carrying mortars, setting them up, launching mortars; firing grenade launchers; digging trenches and living in trenches for days at a time. Though she looks feminine and vulnerable, there is a different side to her that is strong and fierce.

Though Sharon is my favorite, there are other very attractive women in Israel on Facebook that served in the Israeli army. Why this is so interesting to me, is I know that from a very young age that the families and schools in Israel did not allow their children to be stupid, lazy, foolish, irresponsible, whining, complaining, weak, gluttonous, or sloven. In Dickinson, I hardly ever see or meet young women that are healthy and in good physical condition, let alone mentally sharp, strong minded, and strong willed. Seeing these attractive Israeli women reminds me that I am missing so much living here in Dickinson.

Update 11/25/2016: I highly recommend looking at IDFwomenofisrael on Facebook. Israeli Defense Force women of Israel.

Women, Women In Dickinson, And My Website

November 6, 2016UncategorizedDUI in Dickinson North Dakota, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, rights of women in North Dakota, what is Dickinson North Dakota Like, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Watford City North Dakotaname withheld

I have written in several recent blog posts that my biggest motivation in creating this website was anger. However it is the fact that there is very little to do in Dickinson that causes me to write so much, and keeps me angry.

I can not go out to bars at night and socialize in Dickinson because the police are so aggressive in stopping everyone to give them a DUI. It is not really worth it going out to bars and restaurants at night in Dickinson anyway because most of the bartenders and servers are angry, mentally ill women who came to North Dakota because they could not obtain and keep employment where they came from.

Because of not being able to go out at night to bars and socialize, because most of the bartenders and servers are angry, mentally ill women, and because there is a shortage of women in Dickinson, I thought that it would be a good idea to hire a prostitute. However, you can’t do this either because the police in Dickinson and Bismarck place fake advertisements for escorts on the internet so that they can arrest men when they show up for their appointment.

All I have to do with my time is read, write, work on cars and equipment, and watch television. While reading recently, I saw a job advertisement that indicated foreign refugees were going to be relocated to Watford City, North Dakota. More reading verified my suspicion that it would probably be Syrian refugees. Lutheran Social Services in Minnesota and North Dakota is currently working on this.

I wrote a blog post about Muslim refugees from the Middle East being relocated to western North Dakota on my website. I thought that it was interesting and funny. Western North Dakota sucks so bad already for me, the other out of state workers, the red-necks, and the white trash, everybody is already angry. I can’t wait to see this anger explode when Lutheran Social Services starts bringing the Muslim Syrian refugees to live next to and work next to, the mean North Dakotans, and the angry red-necks and white trash.

I looked on the internet for an appropriate image to include with my blog post about the Syrian refugees relocating to western North Dakota. (I just got done telling you, no, I don’t have anything better to do.) In general, paintings are no longer protected by copyright law once the artist has been dead for seventy years. What I look through, are paintings from the 1400s through the early 1900s because I can use these paintings as illustrations without having to pay for their use, they are no longer copyright protected. I like these paintings anyway for a number of different reasons. I want to explain several things about the Muslim and Arab paintings of harem women and slave women.

In the 1600s through the early 1900s, many excellent European painters traveled to the Middle East to observe, study, and paint harem women and slave women. The wealthy Arabs, Muslims, Berbers, and Turks very often kept harems and slave women, many of them were white women. I believe that many of these white women ended up as captives because “they were at the wrong place, at the wrong time.”

I believe that what I am writing about these harems and women slaves, is not registering with some of the women that are reading this. They may think of this with notions of romance and adventure. I am not using the term “slave” in a figurative way, I do literally mean “slave”, as in not being able to leave and being held against their will. After looking at many different harem women and slave women paintings, it is clear to me that these women were treated the same as animal property, the same as horses.

One of my favorite painters is John William Waterhouse, an English painter who lived from 1849 to 1917. Most of the paintings on my website are by John W. Waterhouse. To me, his paintings are clearer than photographs. Though he may have created one hundred famous paintings, you can see that he chose to use the same five women models. Many of John W. Waterhouse’s paintings show women that are partially or completely nude. I am sure that his five favorite women models had no objection to modelling nude for him. All of the women in his paintings have dignity and free-will, whether they are a young water nymph, a courtesan, a priestess, or a goddess.

The European painters that traveled to the Middle East to paint the harem women and slave women, their paintings show women that are not voluntarily modelling nude, they show women that are accustomed to remaining unclothed for long periods of time, because they are required to do so. These paintings do not show women with dignity or free-will, they show women that are captives, though they often seem or appear accustomed to their situation. Often times, these harem women are shown with exotic pets that are normally wild animals, such as lions, cheetahs, and parrots. Though the wealthy Arabs and Turks did have exotic pets like lions and cheetahs, these animals that are normally free, are required to lounge around in captivity, just like the captive women. The harem women and the slave women shown in the paintings, are not much different than the exotic pets lounging with them, they are all captives, and animal property.

Many of the women in Dickinson act shitty and hostile toward white men. I want to point out that if it weren’t for the white men, women would most likely end up being treated as slaves and kept as animal property. Everything that is being done to undermine white Christian men, will probably result in all women everywhere losing all of their rights within the next fifty years. Look at how women are treated in the Middle East, the Far East, and Latin America. The more that white Christian men become a minority, the more that women undermine white Christian men, the sooner the culture and values of the Middle East, the Far East, and Latin America will inevitably take away all the freedom and equality that women have.

Reasons Why The Women In Dunn County Are Prettier And Healthier Than The Women In Dickinson, North Dakota

October 18, 2016Uncategorizedlife in Dunn County North Dakota, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, living in Dunn County North Dakota, living in Killdeer North Dakota, people in Dunn County North Dakota, what is Dunn County North Dakota like, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Dunn County North Dakota, women in Killdeer North Dakotaname withheld

Dunn County, North Dakota, is a completely rural county. The largest town, Killdeer, has a population of about 1,000 people.

The people are very spread out across the county on large farms and ranches. I will explain that the way Dunn County people live and raise their children, makes them have unusually pretty and healthy women and daughters.

I want to first describe that the rural farming people in Dunn County have traditional families with both a father and a mother that are very much in charge. Far out in the middle of no where, what mom and dad says is the law, and mom and dad are the main influence and guide, completely controlling the environment that their kids are raised in.

Life in North Dakota has always been extremely difficult in comparison to other states. North Dakota has long and very cold winters, usually there are high winds which make it even colder with the wind chill. The ground is not very fertile, trees and other vegetation does not flourish. The very hard and difficult life in North Dakota dictates that rural families have to live a certain way.

Because it is cold for about seven months out of the year, and because the ground is only good for growing a few kinds of crops, for the farmers, both mom and dad have to work elsewhere, in addition to farming. Except for the three brief oil booms, there were very few jobs in Dunn County. Mom might be a school teacher or work at the grocery store, dad might be a mechanic. But jobs were scarce, and jobs would often times go away due to failed crops or low crop prices.

The mom and dad farmers had to be serious and hardworking at their jobs, because jobs were scarce, and they also had to be serious and hardworking at farming, because farming in North Dakota is difficult. The mom and dad farmers in Dunn County were not, and could not be, silly, foolish, lazy, or wasteful. The moms and dads were not going to allow their children to be foolish, lazy, or wasteful, and they would have to work too.

In the morning before school, the kids would have some farm chores to do, like go feed the animals. The kids might have to walk 1/2 mile down their driveway to wait for the school bus in the morning when it was typically 0 degrees Fahrenheit. After getting let off the school bus at the end of the school day, it was 1/2 mile walk back up the driveway. Then it was more farm chores.

After the farm chores, the kids probably had to do house chores like cleaning, doing laundry, help make dinner. Remember, the kids are having to do this farm work and house work because their mom and dad have 9 to 5 jobs, then mom and dad have to come home and do work too. The dad is always having to work on farm equipment, automobiles, wells, the barn, the house, plumbing, appliances, etc.

The wives and kids are busy all day working. They hardly have time to eat. They are certainly not sitting in front of the television all afternoon eating potato chips. When the wives and kids do eat lunch and dinner, they probably barely replace all the food calories they use.

In all of Dunn County, there is no McDonald’s, Burger King, Wendy’s, Arby’s, Hardees, Taco Bell, or Dominos. All of the families have to cook dinner every night. And no, mom and dad and their three kids are not microwaving three 300 calorie frozen dinners for each of themselves. They are eating fresh meat, fresh vegetables, and potatoes.

The rural families might go to the grocery store once each week, or once every two weeks. They are not buying a lot of Doritos, potato chips, Fritos, cheese puffs, pretzels, cookies, frozen dinners, or soda because it is junk food and they are trying not to waste money. Sometimes they don’t have money to waste.

The rural families living out in the middle of no where do not have anyone interfering with the way their family lives. They do not have the next door neighbor insisting that they take turns driving the kids to and from school if the mom and dad have already decided their kids are going to walk to the end of the driveway and wait for the bus. There are no moms going through the drive through at McDonald’s every day. Their kids aren’t going next door to the neighbors and sitting on the couch all afternoon eating potato chips and playing video games.

Because of the lifestyle of always doing physical work on the farm, always being active, not spending hours on the sofa watching television, not eating junk food all day, not having access to fast food, not having the time to over eat, and having to cook fresh food every day for dinner makes the women in Dunn County prettier and healthier than the women in Dickinson.

My description of life on a farm in Dunn County might seem like slavery to some readers, the isolation, no neighbors right next door, no relief from farm work responsibilities. But it is these things that keep these families safe and healthy. As long as all of the family members are home and doing their chores, they aren’t getting into trouble or being led astray by others. There are no gang members, drug addicts, meth dealers, crack dealers, pedophiles, womanizers, lesbians, homosexuals, transgenders, or liberal idiots out at the farm.

People Resorting To Sex With Animals In Dickinson, North Dakota

In my previous four blog posts I wrote that the Catholics, Senator Heidi Heitkamp, law enforcement, and the judicial system in western North Dakota have all decided that there is not going to be any prostitution allowed whatsoever, even though there are way more men than women, and prostitution is necessary. Rather than achieving a glorious state of morality and purity in western North Dakota, it has resulted in adultery, and sexual abuse of animals.

Right now, everybody needs to go read the Jamestown Sun newspaper article dated January 28, 2013 “Horse becomes victim of sexual assault in west North Dakota.” Go read the article, not only was a horse sexually assaulted, this was not the first time that this happened to a horse in this area, and, it has happened to cattle in this area too.

A quote from this newspaper article reads, “…an illegal act ranchers suggest happens all too often in this area, but rarely gets reported.”

Another quote from this newspaper article reads, “This is not the first time an attack like this has happened. Horse farrier Lee Hecker found his daughter’s older mare on the ground with grease on its “rear-end” this fall.”

Another quote from this newspaper article reads, “Hecker has over the years found evidence of assault on his horses and cows.”

I am so sick of the Catholics in Dickinson. The Catholics here in Dickinson, instead of having kindness and charity towards others, have hatred and hostility towards others. Instead of helping the people who arrived here in Dickinson, they took advantage of them in historic proportion. Just like the Catholics here have got a complete misunderstanding of the teachings of Christianity, which has them believing that they should treat others with hostility, hatred, and abuse, their determined efforts to not allow men the opportunity to have sex with women, has forced the men here to turn to horses and cows for sex.

How To Tell If Your Child Was Fathered By An Out Of State Worker In Dickinson And Watford City, North Dakota

October 14, 2016UncategorizedCatholics in Dickinson North Dakota, guide to Dickinson North Dakota, Heidi Heitkamp, Information on Dickinson North Dakota, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, moving to Watford City North Dakota, prostitution in Dickinson North Dakota, prostitution in Watford City North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, relocating to Watford City North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Watford City North Dakotaname withheld

The Catholics, Senator Heidi Heitkamp, law enforcement, and the judicial system all decided that there was not going to be any prostitution allowed when all of the out of state workers moved to western North Dakota for the oil boom and the ratio of men to women in Dickinson became 3:1, and 10:1 in Watford City. There was nothing that the out of state workers could do but try to seduce the married women and unmarried local women by any means necessary to obtain sex. Promising them anything and everything, lying to them, tricking them, taking advantage of them, exploiting their vulnerabilities, because they had to if they wanted to have sex.

In order to tell if your child was fathered by an out of state worker, here are some signs to look for:

If your wife had been asking you to fix a fence, wash the windows, trim a tree, clean the gutters out, and your wife quit asking you, and these things got done, and she gave birth nine months later, your child was probably fathered by an out of state worker.
If your child says, “I’m cold”, and it is above 20 degrees Fahrenheit, your child was probably fathered by an out of state worker.
If your child does well in school, likes school, and has a large vocabulary, your child was probably fathered by an out of state worker.
If your child says, “Are y’all fixin to go to the store?”, your child was probably fathered by an out of state worker.
If your child is black, and neither you or your wife is black, your child was probably fathered by an out of state worker.

Are We Supposed To Seduce The Married Women In Dickinson And Watford City, North Dakota?

Are we, the out of state workers, supposed to seduce the married women in Dickinson and Watford City, North Dakota? The Catholics, Senator Heidi Heitkamp, law enforcement, and the judicial system don’t want there to be any prostitution of any kind whatsoever, so I guess we must be supposed to seduce the married women.

The ratio of men to women in Dickinson is about 3:1, and the ratio of men to women in Watford City is about 10:1. There are not enough women for everybody to have one, therefore, we must borrow someone else’s, because prostitution is not allowed.

Most of the time, very attractive young ladies with good dispositions already have a boyfriend or husband. They are so sought after because of their beauty and good personality, that they always either have a boyfriend or are married. Fortunately, married women are easier to seduce than single women, as I will explain.

Married women, by the fact that they are married, have demonstrated that they like men enough to marry one of them. If they have been married for at least a few years, they are used to men. They are used to a man touching them, grabbing them, handling them, having sex with them, sleeping next to them, snoring, being sick around them, being dirty, sweaty, and smelly. So they are not uncomfortable with men, or the things that men do.

I have written in previous blog posts that all of the housewives, waitresses, and store clerks were tired of being propositioned ten times every day by the truck drivers, construction workers, and oil field workers. I have written that all of the housewives in Dickinson, Dunn County, and Watford City, hide, they hide, and they try to only go out to do errands and shopping between the hours of 9:00 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. in order to avoid all of the male workers who are currently still at work during those hours. But the housewives try to avoid the male workers, because they actually like some of them, they find some of them to be cute or handsome.

When a married woman sees a strong dirty sweaty construction worker that she thinks is cute or handsome, she starts fantasizing about all the work that she could have him do back at her house. She starts fantasizing about the strong dirty sweaty construction worker taking her, without asking, (so it’s not her fault), in an animalistic primitive wild lust that she can’t stop, (so it’s not her fault).

The housewives, they have already noticed that some of the out of state workers are cute or handsome, and they have already thought about it. The housewives that are sometimes the most vulnerable to seduction, according to scientific research, are the ones with a couple of children under the age of eight. This is because of both a high hormone level at this time, and the fact that they are looking for relief and escape from their squabbling squealing children.

When you combine the fact that housewives are used to men, are used to having sex, are not scared of sex, are not scared of getting pregnant, find strong sweaty construction workers attractive, have high hormone levels, want an escape from their squealing kids, and, and are probably mad at their husband for something and want to get back at him, you see that housewives are very ready to be borrowed temporarily by out of state workers.

The Catholics could not have set things up any better for the greatest amount of adultery in Dickinson and Watford City, with there being so many men, so few women, and absolutely no prostitutes allowed for the out of state workers.

In my next blog post, I will write about how people in Dickinson and Watford City can tell if their child was fathered by an out of state worker.

Maggie McNeil, The Honest Courtesan, Part II

October 13, 2016Uncategorizedguide to Dickinson North Dakota, Information on Dickinson North Dakota, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, living in Williston North Dakota, Maggie McNeil The Honest Courtesan, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, moving to Watford City North Dakota, moving to Williston North Dakota, prostitution in Dickinson North Dakota, prostitution in North Dakota, prostitution in Watford City North Dakota, prostitution in Williston North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, relocating to Watford City North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Watford City North Dakota, womn in Williston North Dakotaname withheld

In my previous blog post I wrote about the website “Maggie McNeil, The Honest Courtesan, frank commentary from an unretired call girl”.

Maggie McNeil is not her real name, it is a pseudonym that she chose for herself to protect her identity. Maggie McNeil received her B.A. in English, and her M.S. in Library Science. She became married after graduating and began working as a librarian. When she became divorced after four years of marriage, she began working as a stripper in New Orleans to pay off debt that she was left with. While working as a stripper, she found out that she could make more money as a prostitute, so she became a prostitute.

Maggie McNeil writes about all aspects of her life, but mostly she writes as an advocate for women’s rights, especially the right for women to earn their living by having sex for money, without being persecuted and treated like a criminal.

Maggie McNeil came from a stable family, was mentally and physically healthy, completed her education, and was not destitute. She chose to become a prostitute, she was not forced into it. She writes that she enjoys having sex and she likes being a prostitute. She has always been able to manage her own affairs, she has always been in control of her life. She was never under anyone else’s control, and she was not victimized.

Maggie McNeil writes that there are many women throughout the world that are just like her. There are many women throughout the world that are perfectly capable of taking care of themselves, and they to chose to have sex for money as a profession. Maggie McNeil has written more than a thousand blog posts on the subject of people working as prostitutes. She reads research, studies, and news articles from around the world related to prostitution daily, and she posts links, summaries, and commentary.

I am writing about Maggie McNeil on my blog website, because I would like for people in North Dakota to consider some things in a rational, logical way. When you have 20,000 male oil field workers move to Williston, North Dakota, there are not enough local women for the oil field workers to court, become engaged, and become married like you Catholics would like. The ratio of men to women was probably 10:1.

Throughout the history of the world, in most parts of the world, there has been the situation where there were great numbers of men, and very few women. Wars in remote locations, mining and lumber operations in remote locations, settling of frontiers and far away countries, gold rushes, oil booms. There has been prostitution everywhere that there has been great numbers of men and few women.

Readers probably have images in their heads of dirty, filthy, diseased women working as prostitutes near battle fronts and mining towns. The truth is, if these women working as prostitutes didn’t have access to clean lodgings, bathing facilities, and medical care, they might be dirty and diseased. The best thing for women working as prostitutes and the men using these prostitutes, would be that these women have a clean, safe, regulated environment to work in.

What the North Dakotans should have done, was acknowledge and understand that there were going to be way more men than women due to the oil boom. There was going to be prostitution. When prostitution is illegal, and law enforcement and the judicial system seek to find and arrest all prostitutes, prostitution is conducted as a criminal enterprise, by criminals. No normal woman is going to want to come to North Dakota to work as a prostitute when law enforcement is determined to arrest all prostitutes. So instead what you get in North Dakota is, gangs, pimps, and criminals in other states get girls and women addicted to drugs, keep them high on drugs, beat them, threaten them, and drive them to North Dakota and force them to work as prostitutes. These women are so drug addicted, so high on drugs, so coerced, that they have no control over how many men they have sex with, take no health precautions for their own safety, and take no health precautions against spreading disease to men.

If North Dakota would have allowed prostitution to be conducted as a legal business, there could have been normal, healthy, safety conscious women working in safe, clean places of business, with good access to health care, and some regulation. Instead with North Dakotans vilifying and criminalizing prostitution, you have gangs and pimps drugging girls and women, holding them against their will, and forcing them to have sex with as many men as possible with no regard for their own health, for their customer’s health, or for spreading diseases.

Maggie McNeil, The Honest Courtesan, Part I

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“Maggie McNeil, The Honest Courtesan, frank commentary from an unretired call girl”.

Maggie McNeil is probably the best writer that I have ever read. Maggie McNeil is not her real name. She grew up in New Orleans, and went to Catholic school. In 1987 she graduated from the University of New Orleans with a Bachelor of Arts in English. In 1993 she graduated from Louisiana State University with a Masters in Library Science.

After graduating, she got married to her boyfriend that she met in college, and began working as a librarian. After about four years of marriage, her marriage did not work out, she got a divorce, and her husband left her with a large amount of debt. In 1997 she began working as a stripper in New Orleans in order to be able to pay down her debt. She found out that she could make even more money as a prostitute, so that is what she did.

In about 2006, she married her favorite client, and retired from being a stripper and a prostitute. She began writing about her life and about prostitution on her website “Maggie McNeil, The Honest Courtesan”.

In 2011 when I first came to Dickinson, North Dakota to work, there was a shortage of women, and lack of attractive women. For the first time in my life, in my early 40s, I began looking at internet dating sites. Though I began looking at five different internet dating sites each day, there were still very few attractive women in Dickinson. Older workers told me to go to the website “Backpage”, and look under “Escorts”. There were some attractive women advertising in the “Escort” section of “Backpage”, and at $250 per hour, that is way less money, less time, and less effort than trying to have a girlfriend.

However, the police in Dickinson, Williston, and Bismarck were creating fake “Escort” profiles on “Backpage”, and they were arresting the men when they went to their appointment with the “Escort” they contacted. I was angry, and I still am angry, that everyone in Dickinson and Williston knew that there were way more men than women, the ratio was probably 3:1 in Dickinson and 10:1 in Williston. Everyone knew that all of the housewives, waitresses, and store clerks were tired of being propositioned ten times a day by truck drivers, construction workers, and oil field workers. I blame those God damn ignorant scheming Catholics in western North Dakota for not allowing and interfering with men trying to have relations with women in a way that did not harass the housewives, waitresses, and store clerks.

In trying to look for women on the internet, and reading about prostitution on the internet, I found the website “Maggie McNeil, The Honest Courtesan”. I was impressed with Maggie McNeil’s writing. She was very logical, organized, and coherent in her writing, it was very professional. Actually, it was beyond professional, she was a very good and talented writer.

I wrote Maggie McNeil a fairly long e-mail complimenting her writing, explaining my thoughts, and asking her some questions. She e-mailed me back saying that I should read Ayn Rand if I didn’t think women could be logical.

I have read about one hundred of Maggie McNeil’s blog posts, though she has written more than a thousand. Some posts tell about her childhood, some are about her education, some about her marriage, being a librarian, a stripper, a prostitute, a writer, and about legalizing prostitution. Most of her writing is about legalizing prostitution and decriminalizing prostitution.

The reason that I am writing about Maggie McNeil, is that I want other people to read her blog posts, especially women, especially women in North Dakota. Sometimes she explains very thoroughly that she likes having sex, she always has, even from when she was a teenager, that she sees nothing wrong with it, and is unashamed about it. I hope that her writing and explaining will help many readers in North Dakota realize that sex is completely normal, it’s not like some terrifying animal escaping from the zoo, which is how North Dakotans look at sex and nudity.

Also, I would like for women, community leaders, elected representatives, Senator Heidi Heitkamp, judicial officers, and law enforcement to read Maggie McNeil’s blog website in order to understand more than they do now about why some women want to get paid to have sex. Maggie McNeil is very intelligent and well educated. She realized when she was in financial debt, that she could make more money as a stripper, than at her job as a librarian. Then, she realized that she could make more money as a prostitute, and that she liked being a prostitute. This is what she wanted to do as a profession. She is not a drug addict or a criminal. There are many other women like her, that want to be paid to have sex, because they can make more money this way, and like it better than other employment options.

I will write more about this in my next blog post Maggie McNeil, The Honest Courtesan, Part II.

High Plains Cultural Center, Killdeer, North Dakota

September 28, 2016UncategorizedHigh Plains Cultural Center Killdeer North Dakota, Killdeer North Dakota, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, living in Killdeer North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, relocating to Dickinson North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Dunn County, women in Killdeer North Dakotaname withheld

In late 2014, the newly constructed High Plains Cultural Center opened in downtown Killdeer on Highway 22. The facility was constructed to serve many different functions for Killdeer and Dunn County.

The facility can hold events with up to 500 people: business conferences, company meetings, community meetings, music concerts, dances, dinners, weddings, family reunions. There are kitchen facilities, bar facilities, sound system, and 12’x22′ video screen. There is a covered entrance for vehicles dropping off or picking people up. There is a large outer lobby that is separate from the event area. There are large restrooms at each end of the event area.

During the week, the High Plains Culture Center is open from 8:30 a.m. to 8:00 p.m. There is a gym and exercise equipment on the second floor, the event area is set up for basketball or volleyball, and there is a separate Pioneer Museum adjacent to the lobby.

I like the High Plains Culture Center, and I think that this has got to be the best thing that ever happened in Killdeer or Dunn County. I would not change a thing about the facility, it could not have turned out better, and it is not lacking anything.

I would have thought that everybody would have been proud and joyful about the High Plains Cultural Center, it is so clean, and nice, and modern. Now, especially in the Winter, kids can play in the basketball area, moms and dads can walk the upper level track and use the exercise equipment, older people can sit and have coffee in the lobby. They can have concerts, watch sporting events on the large screen, host charity events and dinners, have dances. Some people in Killdeer didn’t want the event center and don’t like it. As time passes, and people get used to the event center being there, I think that everyone will eventually appreciate it.

I have been to a couple of events at the High Plains Cultural Center, one of the events was a large wedding reception. Dunn County is a completely rural county, with many large farms and ranches. People are very spread out, the county is sparsely populated. A wedding I believe is one of the few times that everybody comes to town and gets together.

Women and housewives in Dickinson hide. Women in Dunn County hide. There are just a few things that make them come out of hiding. There were many attractive women at the wedding reception that I went to in Killdeer. I was surprised. I guess that the women in Dunn County might go to the grocery store once a week, other than that, they are just out in the middle of nowhere at the end of a dirt road. They get married, get pregnant, have kids, raise kids, cook, clean, do laundry, and stay home. They are attractive and healthy, but they stay home, out in the middle of nowhere. I have never seen anything like this before, and I don’t understand it.

Everywhere that I have lived, attractive women had to be out going places and doing things, they couldn’t stand being stuck at home. When they were out, the more that people noticed them and admired them, the more attention that they got, the better they felt about themselves. At the wedding reception that I went to in Killdeer, I was surprised at how many women were nearly model-like in every way, their nearly perfect body proportions, clear flawless complexions, healthy shiny hair, beautiful everything, yet they did not want any attention, so much so that many of them changed out of their party dresses as soon as possible and into jeans and sweatshirts.

Maybe I can answer my own questions. Maybe they married the guy they married, and it really was for ever, for better or worse. If it really was forever, there should be no reason for any one else to be looking at them, or for them to want attention from any one else. Once they were married, they knew what that meant, getting pregnant, having kids, raising kids, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, and staying home. Staying home out in the middle of no where. These women are different. I don’t know if I would want one of these women or not. I got the impression that they don’t want me.

How Women In Dickinson Can Behave Like Southern Ladies, Part 4 of 4

August 29, 2016Uncategorizedhow to be a lady in Belfield North Dakota, how to be a lady in Dickinson North Dakota, how to be a lady in Watford City North Dakota, living in Belfield North Dakota, Living in Dickinson, North Dakota, Living in Watford City North Dakota, moving to Belfield North Dakota, Moving to Dickinson, North Dakota, moving to Watford City North Dakota, women in Belfield North Dakota, women in Dickinson North Dakota, women in Watford City North Dakotaname withheld

This will be the last part for the time being. There is a lot more to cover, but it would take a big book to include everything, and I don’t want to entirely devote this blog to this subject. Parts 1, 2, 3, & 4 cover what I think are some of the most important things.

6. Do Not Look Like A Slob In Public. Try to take a shower, comb your hair, and put on clean normal clothes before you leave your home. You might think that it is cute when you wear pajama pants and slippers to go to the store, but actually, people think that your family must be so trashy that you don’t even know any better. You might think that you are cute when you go to the King Buffet or the Pizza Ranch in your pajama pants and slippers, but other people at the restaurant see you and think, “You must have gotten your welfare assistance payment today, that is why you are out to eat in your pajamas.”

The big problem is, women get in the habit of always wearing sweat pants or pajama pants, an over size worn t-shirt, an over size worn hoodie sweatshirt, and they live the rest of their life dressing this way. They say to themselves, “I am just going to the post office, I am just going to the bank, I am just going to the car dealer to drop off my car.” Do the women who work at the bank or at the car dealer dress this way? No, the women who work at the bank and at the car dealer don’t dress this way because it is not allowed, they would look like a slob. You look like a slob.

7. Do Not Act Like A Slob In Public. When you are out with your family, do not act like a troop of baboons, yelling, screeching, grabbing things, picking at yourselves, oblivious to the human beings around you.

8. Do Not Become Over Intoxicated In Public. No, people will not forget the things that you said and the things that you did when you were drunk. They will not think that it was just the alcohol, they will think that that is how you really are, and it just finally came out.

How Women In Dickinson Can Behave Like Southern Ladies Part 3 of 4

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Please read Part 1 and Part 2 in my previous two blog posts where I explained Rules 1 through 4. Many women in Dickinson already know these rules, however many do not.

5. Do Not Fight In Public. I mean do not engage in a physical fight in public. In a stressful situation, if you can not stand there with your arms crossed, then you need to leave. If you are being put under too much stress, you should probably leave anyway. You do not have to stand there and let someone insult you, curse at you, or threaten you, ..leave. You should always try to avoid situations where people will mistreat you, however if you find yourself in a situation where you are being mistreated, …leave. I will give some examples below.

If your boyfriend is being disrespectful or insulting, …leave.

If your husband is being abusive, disrespectful, or insulting, …leave.

If a co-worker is being abusive or threatening, you should probably leave.

If an employer is being abusive or threatening, you should leave.

In the examples that I gave above, you need to let people know that you will not tolerate mistreatment or abuse, and though they may be using bad language, vulgarity, and making threats, you aren’t going to behave like that. In your personal relationships, you can disassociate yourself from anyone that is disrespectful and abusive, but you should also do this in your professional life, and I will explain why

If an employer ever tries to mistreat you, they will likely never stop. The first time that an employer does something abusive, understand that this is what they are like, and that this will continue. There are laws now about “hostile work environment”, but you should just leave first, and not come back.

You might be thinking, “This is easy for you to say, but how am I going to pay my bills?” When you are a young single woman, you can’t spend all the money that you make. It is very, very important that you save money, and have quite a bit of money saved up. You need to not get the most expensive apartment, most expensive furniture, most expensive car, and most expensive clothes that you can buy. You need to save money and have money saved up so that you will not be at the mercy of other people, or dependent on other people, and can just leave any abusive, threatening, or coercive situation.

Again, a lady should not engage in a physical fight. But this does not mean that you have to do nothing when people are threatening and abusive to you. In some cases, it may be appropriate to have a boyfriend, husband, or father inform someone that they had better not mistreat you. In some cases you may have to explain yourself to an administrator or a manager in order to report and stop abuse. In some cases you may need a lawyer. In some cases you may be better off to just never deal with some people again.

How Women In Dickinson Can Behave Like Southern Ladies, Part 2 of 4

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Please read my blog post “How Women In Dickinson Can Behave Like Southern Ladies, Part 1”. I began that post by saying that many women in Dickinson already know these things that I will write, however many do not, especially the young single women who have come from out of state to work in Dickinson.

4. Do Not Argue In Public. You may have been wronged, but do not argue in public. In confronting an individual that has wronged you, you may accidentally begin to use language that is not lady-like, and you may end up looking trashy and low class. You may have been wronged, but in confronting an individual in public, details may emerge, or accusations could emerge, that may embarrass you or humiliate you. Arguing in public, details might emerge that could hurt innocent people. Arguing in public might reveal a dark side of you that no one was aware of and that you don’t want known. Arguing in public might lead to a physical fight, and you don’t want or need witnesses to this. Fighting in public is prohibited in Rule #5 by the way.

Rule #4 is an extremely important rule. Let’s just say that you are right and that the other person is wrong. Stop and think about the consequences of arguing in public. I will have to explain this with some scenarios.

Let us say that your husband has had an affair with a waitress. You know it, your husband knows it, and the waitress knows it. In your anger, you might head straight down to the restaurant where this waitress works, and confront her wherever you find her saying, “You fucking whore! I had better not ever catch you fucking my husband again!” As a result of this approach, your husband’s friends, your friends, your husband’s co-workers, your co-workers, your neighbors, and probably even your children will know what your husband did. Was it necessary and beneficial for your neighbors and children to know this? What if the waitress yells back, “Your husband told me that you were a lesbian and you wouldn’t have sex with him anymore!” Whether this is true or not, what is everybody going to think?

A lady would confront her husband in private, with no one around, no witnesses, no children. (How and why do you think that President George Bush got a black eye while he was president and in the private residence?) No one needs to see or hear this lady using bad language. No one needs to see or hear this lady punch her husband in the face. He won’t be able to tell the police. He will have to say something stupid like he was eating pretzels and a pretzel got caught in his throat and he hit his head on the coffee table.

A lady would not want her children to know that their father had had an affair. She would not want to upset and confuse the children, who would then spend all of their time worrying that mom and dad were going to get a divorce. A lady would dictate terms, conditions, and consequences to her husband in private. All of the arguing and negotiating would be done in private. No one needs to know or should know the husband and wife’s personal affairs.

If a lady wanted to confront the waitress who had had an affair with her husband, she could inform the waitress that she would like to meet with her. By the way, a forty-five year old married woman telephoning a twenty-five year old waitress and asking to speak to her in the most matter-of-fact way, would probably result in all restaurant staff suspecting, but not knowing, what had transpired, and it would not be liked. A quick meeting, off hours, at the most distant table, in a hotel bar, would be an appropriate place for a lady to tell some young woman that she knows what had happened. That she has explained this to her husband, and now she is explaining this to you, that if this ever happens again, that you can have him, he can come and live with you, but you had better be able to support both of you, because she will be keeping the house, and she and the kids will be taking all of his money.

Rule #4, Do Not Argue In Public, does not mean not doing anything, or not getting even. In the South, women don’t have to like each other, in order to help each other. The easy thing to call it would be “Networking” but this it not accurate, because “Networking” is different. It is more simple, it is like, “If you do something to one of us, you do something to all of us.” Ladies do not like it when other women cause their husbands to cheat on them. If a lady told her best friend in the strictest confidence what her husband had done. Her best friend might take matters into her own hands and tell her friend, who is the wife of the restaurant owner. The restaurant owner’s wife is not about to have some young girl around that is going to be after her husband next, and this young waitress can no longer work there.

Having just written that in the South, women don’t have to like each other, in order to help each other, the following outcome is just as likely. Once a wife has had a chance to calm down after finding out that her husband has had an affair. The wife will want to know who her husband cheated with. It might be a relief to the wife that her husband cheated with some twenty-five year old waitress, and feel that this is not a threat. The waitress probably doesn’t want her husband anyway. The wife might try to put herself in the shoes of the young waitress, not making much money, struggling financially, her husband trying to charm her, maybe promising her things. The wife might not want any revenge on the young waitress, and begin to believe that both she and the waitress were both victimized by her husband in this.

But remember that there was No Arguing In Public.