Almost one year ago, I wrote a blog post article about the “Escort of Italy” website. This website, and this escort service, is one of the most amazing, fascinating, and impressive things that I have ever seen in my life.
I have lived in Dickinson, North Dakota for about six years, where there is a shortage of women, a scarcity of attractive women, the women who are here are mean and nasty, and prostitution is not allowed. When I look at the “Escort of Italy” website, I can’t believe that such a thing exists, but it’s true.
Before I go any further, and provide any links to this website, I need to caution everyone, that you will see nudity on this website. Because of the cultural difference, and acceptance of prostitution in Italy, when you are on this escort website, if you click on any of the women’s photographs, it will give you the age, height, weight, and nationality of each woman, and what she is willing to do sexually.
To save you some time, if you want to see the largest number of escorts at once, click on the tab for “Travel Girls”. Click on the escort named “Rozy Model”, for instance. She might be the girl that I would ask for. That’s what you do, you pick and ask for the girl that you want. The “Travel Girls” are more expensive, I think that you have to pre-pay for a large amount of time and pay travel expenses. The other escorts in the towns of Milan, Rome, and Florence are almost as pretty, and they cost about $250 per hour.
Here is a short excerpt from the “Escort of Italy” website. If you click on any of the differently colored text in this excerpt, it takes you to this website:
“You are welcome to our high class escort agency Italy, offering you the best female escorts Italy for hotel or private dating, exclusive girlfriend experience, travel and vacation escort with charming Italia girls, VIP escort girls Italy for business occasions and many more. If you are looking for pleasure and comfort, then you have come to the right place. Our elegant Italy escorts will meet the most subtle expectations of a lonely man who is eager to find love and companionship in Italia. We offer our clients the finest attractive escorts in Milan, escort girls Rome, and Turin escorts. Our Italy escort agency provide both incall and outcall services for the guests and residents of the country.”
It kills me, that rather than suffering through living in Dickinson, like being in prison, for only $250 each week, I could look forward to being with “Rozy Model” or “Fiona”. I suppose it could be worse, I could be living in North Korea.
In June of 2018, the Miss America Pageant Organization announced that they will be discontinuing the swimsuit competition phase of their pageants.
This was shocking, puzzling, upsetting, and ridiculous to me when I read this, which I will explain why in a moment. But when I read that Gretchen Carlson had recently become chairwoman of the Miss America Organization, I thought, “Ah ha, that explains that, that stupid bitch Gretchen Carlson is behind this.”
I don’t watch the Miss America Pageants or the Miss America USA Pageants, I don’t like them, at all. These pageants get on my nerves and make me uncomfortable more than just about anything else that I can think of. Yes, these young women are beautiful, but I don’t enjoy seeing them scrutinized, judged, and questioned.
I do recognize that these pageants are important for women. The local Miss America Pageants and the Miss America USA Pageants held in each state, give some women the opportunity to try to improve and advance themselves. They learn how to get in good physical shape, how to carry themselves, how to conduct themselves, how to speak, how to respond in interviews, how to dress in evening gowns and swimsuits, what colors, designs, and clothes look best on them.
The young women who compete in the state pageants get publicity, attention, and experience that can help them in their career and lead them to other opportunities. If they become Miss North Dakota or Miss North Dakota USA, this can help them in allowing them to get better or more prestigious employment, with higher pay, than they would have gotten without being famous. Even just being a contestant in a state pageant and being known for that, helps young women receive more attention, recognition, and more social and employment opportunities.
Having just acknowledged that I understand some of the many benefits that pageant competitions offer women contestants, I will explain why I don’t like watching beauty pageants.
I don’t think that young women should have to parade themselves around in swimsuits, or evening gowns, or be required to answer questions. These young women have put so much work into preparing for these pageants, so much is at stake for them personally in these pageants, that they are frightened and nervous. I feel uncomfortable and anxious watching their nervousness, fear, awkwardness, or mis-steps. I don’t want to watch this, I don’t like it.
But I don’t like horse races, horse jumping, or rodeo either. I feel like, leave the fucking horses and cows alone, don’t put these animals through this.
Just because I don’t like a show of young, nervous women being questioned, being dressed in revealing evening gowns or swimsuits, like some kind of a slave sale, doesn’t mean that I have the right to stop it or call a halt to it because I think that it is humiliating, embarrassing, and degrading. If women acting of their own free will want to compete against other women on the basis of beauty and physical appearance, I shouldn’t try to stop them.
I have got to realize and understand, that some young women love competing in beauty pageants, especially if they think that they can win. Some women want to prove that they are the prettiest, most beautiful, most glamorous, most poised, most talented, most articulate. They want to win, and they want to receive all of the benefits from winning.
I have thought about this subject a lot, in order to be able to explain it. I want to use some comparisons. In high school, some young people feel like they have an aptitude for sports, and they begin competing in track & field, or wrestling. Their goal might be, to do well enough in their sport, to get a college athletic scholarship, or compete in the Olympics one day.
The tall skinny kids may do better in track & field competitions, than the short heavy kids. The tall skinny kids will likely have faster times in running, be able to jump higher, and be able to jump longer. This is a track & field competition.
Conversely, the short heavy kids may do much better in wrestling, than the tall skinny kids. The short heavy kids will likely have more muscle mass and strength, than the tall skinny kids. This is a wrestling competition.
Some young people in high school, may feel like they want to go to college to be an engineer, architect, attorney, or doctor. They know that they have to study hard in order to make good enough grades to get into college, but their goal may also be to do well enough in high school to receive an academic scholarship to college.
Some young women, may feel that their strongest aptitude is not sports, not academics, but their beauty, appearance, and personality. These young women may also have goals like going to college, but they don’t see themselves getting a college scholarship through sports or academics. These young women may also believe that they could have a future career in television, movies, or entertainment because of their beauty.
If there is going to be fairness in beauty pageants, it is probably necessary for the competitors to be able to show off how they look in evening gowns, and swimsuits. I want to explain a little bit about this.
In the comparisons that I made up above about what young people might choose to pursue in high school based on what they believe their aptitudes are, and what their goals are, track & field, wrestling, academics, and beauty pageants, these competitions require the demonstration of excellence in different areas in order to win.
The tall skinny kids may be better in track & field, the short heavy kids better in wrestling, the prospective engineers better in academics, and the beautiful girls better in beauty pageants.
In track & field competitions, we would see that it would be absurd to try to handicap the tall people or prevent them from high jumping, in order to make things more fair for the short people. In wrestling, we would see that it would be absurd to try to handicap the short people, or prevent them from pinning their opponent, in order to make things more fair for the tall people. In academics, we would see that it would be absurd to try to handicap the “A” students, and prevent them from taking higher level classes, in order to make thing more fair for the “C” students.
So for the women who compete in beauty pageants, who are competing primarily on their appearance and physical beauty, why would you try to handicap the beautiful women by not allowing them to wear swimsuits, in order to make things more fair for the fat women?
In the beauty pageants, there are some women who naturally have shapely arms, shoulders, waists, hips, legs, and calves. For other women who want to compete in beauty pageants, they may have to work much harder with diet, exercise, and losing weight in order to improve their appearance. The same is true for people competing in sports or academics. Some people are naturally gifted athletically or intellectually, while other people have to work much harder in order to compete.
No matter what Gretchen Carlson the chairwoman of the Miss America Pageant Organization stated were her reasons for eliminating the swimsuit competition phase of the pageant, what she is in fact doing, is trying to handicap the naturally physically beautiful pageant contestants and the pageant contestants who are willing to work hard in order to compete, and trying make things easier for the fat, overweight, and out-of-shape contestants.
Once you start trying to make a beauty pageant more fair for the fat, overweight, and out-of-shape contestants, is this even a beauty pageant at all?
If some women have made the complaint to Gretchen Carlson, that they would like to compete in beauty pageants, if it were not for the swimsuit phase of the competition, which they feel is embarrassing, there are all kinds of other things for these women to compete in. Chess, boxing, karate, fencing, bowling, skiing, swimming, bicycling, gymnastics, tennis, etc.
These women who complained about not wanting to compete in the beauty pageants because of the embarrassment of appearing in a swimsuit, probably never considered competing in skiing, swimming, bicycling, gymnastics, tennis, or any sports, because their fat lazy ass wouldn’t do well in sports either. They look at beauty pageants, if they could just get rid of the swimsuit requirement, as one way for their fat lazy ass to possibly get a scholarship, because sports competitions or academic excellence is just too much work.
By the way, the top female athletes in any sport, would probably not be embarrassed to appear in a bathing suit, because they are fit and in-shape. It makes you wonder about the beauty pageant contestants who want to compete in a beauty pageant, yet they are embarrassed to show off their appearance, and feel that they need to hide what they actually look like.
A couple of days ago, I wrote a blog post titled “My Take On MGTOW, Men Going Their Own Way”. Fortunately, I remember what it was like living in Idaho, where I had women friends, some nice girlfriends, and some prospective girlfriends. These women were nice, fun, funny, reasonable, and helpful. I am not claiming that all women are worthless.
I wrote that working and living in western North Dakota, the MGTOW way of life has been forced upon me. Because there is a shortage of women in western North Dakota, and a scarcity of attractive women, the women who are here do not care about their appearance, and they are mean, hostile, unfriendly, glaring, scowling, and sneering. I suppose that the women here act this way, because they think that they can get away with it.
I want to share a video today, that shows a type of video that is becoming very, very common, where men all over the World are finally coming to the point where they want to honestly and blatantly tell women once and for all: That men are done supporting women, that men are done giving their money away to women, that women can begin doing everything for themselves, that women can expect no more free help from men, the only thing that men ever wanted from women anyway was sex, but the cost of the problems of women is just too high and not worth it.
There is very little to do in Dickinson, North Dakota. It is not safe to go out to restaurants or bars to have drinks and socialize in Dickinson because the Police are so aggressive in stopping people for DUI. Also, there is a shortage of women, the women are mostly unattractive, and the women, restaurant servers, and bartenders are mean and unfriendly. Therefore, there is no reason for me to go out in Dickinson, in fact, I have every reason to stay home.
One of the things that I do to pass the time at home in Dickinson, is to watch YouTube videos. I do not have very much interest in MGTOW videos, videos about Men Going Their Own Way, but these videos are becoming one of the most common subjects on YouTube.
I suppose that one of the reasons why I have very little interest in MGTOW videos, is because I actually live like this, though this was not a choice that I made, it just happened to be forced upon me by living in Dickinson.
Back in Idaho, I had some nice girlfriends, women friends, and prospective girlfriends. It is actually important for me to remember this, before I go bashing all women as not being worth the trouble.
Because of my employment in North Dakota, I only have a few chances each year to go back to my home in Idaho, to do some yard, house, and vehicle maintenance. When I get back to the small town where my home is, it is astonishing how attractive, pleasant, and friendly the women are in comparison to North Dakota. I only have time to go to the local hardware store, Arctic Circle restaurant, and the Dollar Store usually, and the women are all very nice, especially the young girls that are in high school or just out of high school.
I will try to sum women up quickly in the area of Idaho where I had been living: The women like men, the women don’t hate men, the women like to get asked out by men, the women like to go on dates, they like to go to the movies, they like to go out to eat, they like to ride horses, they like to ride motorcycles, they like to ride snow mobiles, they like to go boating, they like to take trips, they like getting attention, they like to look nice, they try to be attractive, they try to act reasonable to get along and so that people like them.
In Idaho where I had been living, some women were good company, fun, funny, enjoyable, pleasant, helpful, considerate, and affectionate. Why wouldn’t you want to be around women like this? You just have to be careful to not unintentionally get them pregnant, or become involved with a woman who is more crazy than you can handle.
When I first came to work in Dickinson, North Dakota in the Spring of 2011, during the oil boom, I noticed that there was a shortage of women, and a scarcity of attractive women. What this resulted in, this shortage of women, was the women that were here, did not make any effort to have a nice appearance, or be pleasant, or be friendly. In fact, most of the women in Dickinson, North Dakota are mean, hostile, unfriendly, sneering, glaring, and scowling.
Because of the shortage of women in Dickinson during the oil boom, there were many job openings at restaurants, bars, hotels, convenience stores, and retail stores. Women who could not find employment where they were living, especially women in Seattle, Spokane, and Couer d’Alene, came to Dickinson. Many of these women, maybe even most of these women, were rough, drug addicted, jaded, damaged women, and they didn’t even have to make an adjustment to fit right in with the mean, hostile, unfriendly, sneering, glaring, scowling women that were already here in Dickinson.
So in Dickinson, North Dakota, MGTOW has been forced upon many men, because there aren’t hardly any nice women available for dating.
One more comment that I will make, is that beginning about twenty to thirty years ago, men in the United States who found that there was a shortage of women where they were living, and no women available for dating, they would look into getting a “Mail Order Bride” from Russia, Vietnam, Thailand, or the Philippines.
Initially, twenty to thirty years ago, there were many women who were so desperate to get out of Russia, Vietnam, Thailand, or the Philippines, that they would actually make a very good effort to be pleasant, helpful, agreeable, faithful, and affectionate with their American husband.
Beginning about fifteen years ago, even the “Mail Order Brides” came to be mean, treacherous, scheming, rough, jaded women, not any different than women from LA, Seattle, Spokane, or Coeur d’Alene, so why even bother with the trouble and high cost to obtain a Mail Order Bride if they were going to be so bad.
Western North Dakota’s outlook and approach to sex and sexuality is backwards and repressive. Even before the most recent oil boom that took place from 2007 through 2014, there was a much greater number of men than women in Western North Dakota. During the oil boom, the ratio of men to women in Dickinson was probably about 3:1, in Watford City and Williston it was probably as high as 8:1.
The worst possible approach to the lack of women in Western North Dakota, was to encourage or force Law Enforcement to not allow any prostitution whatsoever. People like the big, overweight, unattractive Senator Heidi Heitkamp were so against men trying to find women for sex, that she advocated for every possible scheme that Law Enforcement could come up with to entrap men seeking to have sex with women.
It seems like it was a team effort of Heidi Heitkamp and other big, overweight, unattractive women to prevent men from having sex. I don’t know exactly when, where, how, and why Western North Dakotans got the idea that sex was wrong, immoral, wicked, and evil. People and animals have been having sex for a long time, since the beginning of creation.
A few blog posts ago, I included a YouTube video from the spiritual teacher named Teal Swan, about sex, and the normalcy of sexual expression.
In this blog post, I want to include a YouTube video from the sexual education teacher named Dr. Lindsey Doe. Dr. Lindsey Doe has over one hundred short YouTube videos about sex, which are very to-the-point, open, and entertaining.
I am trying to make North Dakotans understand, that sex is completely normal. It is completely normal for men to seek to have sex with women. When there is a shortage of women in an area, one of the easiest and best solutions, would be to allow prostitution.
When you take the approach of North Dakota, to try to make normal adult heterosexual sex illegal, and even have Law Enforcement try to entrap men when they seek to have sex with women, you are creating the situations that we often read about in the North Dakota newspapers where sexually depraved men are accused of seeking or forcing sex with minors, children, and animals. If you didn’t make normal adult sex with women in North Dakota illegal, maybe so many men wouldn’t become sexually depraved and sexually assault women, minors, children, and animals.
Here is one video from Dr. Lindsey Doe, where she explains the normalcy of being propositioned by men:
I highly recommend visiting Dr. Lindsey Doe’s YouTube channel to browse the many topics that she addresses.
Below I have included a video that shows a man competing, winning, and setting new records in a Connecticut State women’s high school track meet.
This black man shown in the video competing against the women, is a “transgender”. He is a biological man, that thinks that he is, or thinks that he wants to be a woman.
Because liberal people, many Democrats, and many women, want for Transgender people to be accepted, they advocate for these Transgender people to be accepted for who they say they are. This means that Transgender people should be allowed to use the bathroom of the sex that they identify with, and apparently compete in sports as the gender that they identify with.
As you can see in this video above of the state high school track meet, a biological man competing in women’s sports, has an advantage, so much of an advantage that he was able to set new state records for women’s track.
Can you see that biological men who think or say that they identify as women, will be able to dominate all of women’s sports? Basketball, softball, volleyball, tennis, golf, field hockey, lacrosse, swimming, track and field, triathalon, cycling, skiing.
Do you think that this is fair or right, for biological men to compete against women and win? To take away 1st place finishes from women in women’s sports?
Do you see that at every high school and college, women could begin losing spots on basketball, softball, volleyball, golf, and tennis teams to biological males who are bigger, faster, and stronger? Losing athletic scholarships to biological men.
I do not think that women ever saw this coming, that any biological man can now say at some point in his life, that he identifies as a woman, in order to compete in women’s sports, compete for a scholarship, or compete for a job by saying that he is a woman.
I did not know that women powerlifters pee when lifting heavy weights, but thanks to a YouTube video explaining this phenomenon, I do now.
I imagine that some women readers are hissing, spitting, and wanting to scratch my eyes out for writing this, but I am not making this up. I never would have known about this, if these women in the video below, would not have made a video about this.
About two weeks ago, I wrote a blog post where I complained that there should be some weight room gyms, where men can expect to lift heavy weights without the distraction of women, interference of women, women taking up the equipment and not using it for its intended purpose, and women talking and fooling around.
There are several gym franchises such as Curves, that are for women only, and we all understand why women want to exercise without any men around sometimes. So why can’t women understand that men want to exercise without women around sometimes?
Men and women are different. I can absolutely guarantee you, that if I peed my pants when doing deadlifts or squats at a gym, I would be kicked out, and everyone would be furious at me, both the men and the women.
Apparently, it is very common for women to pee their pants when lifting heavy weights. I don’t care that much, but like I said, if a man did this, he would be kicked out of the gym. Probably, if a man peed his pants while deadlifting or doing squats at the West River Community Center in Dickinson, the Police would be called and they would try to charge him with lewd and lascivious behavior. But women can just pee all over the place and get away with it.
I found a very good YouTube video where a female powerlifter explains her steroid use. You will first hear the straightforward admission from her about her steroid use at the 4:40 minute mark on this video.
This powerlifter explains that though some of the side effects of steroid use, like acne outbreaks, will go away after you quit using steroids as a woman, your voice change and hair growth everywhere on your body, will not ever go away, it is permanent.
Please also pay close attention to the 11:40 minute mark on this video, where she makes the statement, I knew that if I was going to compete at the highest levels of women’s powerlifting, I had to take steroids.
What I am going to write about, is one of the funniest things that I have seen recently. Women are always jumping on me, for writing about women who I see or meet, accusing me of being a stalker. But I have known for a long time, that women are way sneakier and snoopier than men.
On Memorial Day, I went to the West River Community Center. I parked my vehicle in the parking lot, and a young lady driving a vehicle with a license plate from an oil producing state, drove past me. I was vaguely aware of what kind of vehicle she was driving, but what I thought was funny, was that I did not think that she was a house wife, I got the impression that she worked for an oil company and she got sent up here to Dickinson.
It was funny to me, because I was thinking that an oil company sending her here to Dickinson, was kind of a mean trick on her. I believe that she had probably figured that out in a matter of days after arriving here in Dickinson.
I wanted a day pass at the West River Community Center, and I printed my full name on the guest sign in sheet at the front desk. Then I went to the weight area of the gym. I was only paying a little attention to what women were in the gym.
Today, Tuesday, I was at home looking on my Facebook page for “People You May Know”. The “People You May Know”, are usually people who are “Facebook Friends” of people who are already your “Facebook Friends”. However, some of the people who show up on Facebook as “People You May Know”, who are not “Facebook Friends” of people you already know, are people who have recently viewed your profile.
So, here on Facebook under my “People You May Know” today, was a young lady that I do not know. And, she was not a “Facebook Friend” of someone that I already know. She was young and fairly attractive. So I looked at her profile, she is a particular kind of engineer, from an oil producing state far away from here, who recently began working for a particular oil company here in Dickinson.
Then I realized what had happened, and who this was. On Memorial Day when I got out of my vehicle in the West River Community Center parking lot, I was wearing a particular oil company T-shirt, with the oil company logo in very big letters on the front of my shirt. A young lady driving a vehicle from an oil producing state far away from here, drove past me in the parking lot, and I thought that an oil company must have sent her here, because she was a long way from home.
It turns out, that this young lady is an engineer working for the oil company whose logo was on my T-shirt in big letters. She came into the gym right behind me, she saw me printing my name on the sign in sheet, she read my name off of the sign in sheet, and she used my name to perform an internet search or a Facebook search for me. Now, I remembered her and recognized her.
In order to be completely clear for the women readers who find fault with everything that I write, this young lady who showed up in my “People You May Know” today, she is not from Dickinson, she is not friends with anyone that I know, and she showed up in my “People You May Know” list because she recently viewed my profile. Why would she view my profile, I don’t know her, how did she get my name? She got my full name from the guest sign in sheet, and she wanted to look me up because I was wearing an oil company shirt, of the company where she had been recently hired to work in Dickinson. Once a few of these things dawned on me, I then remembered her as the young lady that I had seen at the WRCC.
I don’t mind that she read my name from the guest sign in sheet and looked me up on the internet. She was just curious, this is not illegal, or unethical in my opinion. Engineers try to take whatever little information they can get, and use it to find out what is going on. I don’t mind, however, if I did this to a woman, I would be banned from the West River Community Center, the police would be called, and the police would likely try to find something to charge me with criminally, such as stalking, even though this is not illegal. I would be in all kinds of trouble.
I will send her a polite message on Facebook. I expect that she will not respond, or block me from viewing her profile again. That will be O.K. with me, but I want to try to be hospitable or gracious anyway, in case she does want to talk to me.
When I was living in Idaho, this was about eight years ago, I was friends with a man who managed a bar and restaurant. I will call this man John, though that is not his real name. John and his brothers had each played every sport in high school, basketball, baseball, football, hockey, wrestling, and they boxed too.
John had joined the Marines after high school, and several of his brothers became football coaches at different schools in Idaho. John, his brothers, and most of their friends were married. John was in his early fifties by the way.
When there were college football playoffs, especially when Boise State University was playing, John, his brothers, and some of their friends would get together at someone’s house to watch the football games. They had a lot of food, snacks, and beverages.
The problem became, that one or more of the men would show up to watch the football game with their wife. The wives would say that they wanted to come, but once they got there, they didn’t really want to be there or watch the game. Inevitably, some of the wives would begin complaining more and more about wanting to go home.
When some of the wives started to complain about not wanting to be there, this didn’t just annoy their own husband, it annoyed everyone there.
So, beginning four years prior to meeting John, he and his friends decided to rent a large hotel suite in order to watch the football game, without their wives complaining. The whole point of renting the hotel room, which was rented by the most serious football watchers, the football coaches, the whole point was to be left alone to watch the game.
After about the first year, the wives couldn’t stand this, not being able to ruin the football game for their husbands. So they would try to ask and find out what hotel room their husband was going to be at. Then someone’s wife would show up at the hotel room to ruin the game.
Finally, just the football coaches would rent a hotel suite to watch the football game, and they would not tell anybody else where it was, absolutely not. They couldn’t afford to invite anyone else, even their friends, because this always caused someone’s wife to show up. They might have even had to go to a neighboring town, so that no one’s wife could go looking for their truck in the hotel parking lots.
I will end this blog post with a joke: “Why do married women close their eyes when they are having sex?……………Because they can’t stand to see their husbands having a good time.”
Piper Blush is a young lady from Quebec, Canada who does many things, including making videos that she uploads to YouTube.
She makes travel videos, cooking videos, beach videos, advice videos, modelling videos, and sex videos. She is very funny, and you never know what she is going to do, or what she is going to say.
Currently she is in Malta, and I can’t believe that she made this video:
In December of 2017, I wrote a blog post about a new gym that had recently opened in Dickinson, North Dakota, called The Pit Gym. When I looked in the window of The Pit Gym, I saw two heavy-duty squat racks, two heavy-duty bench press benches, and a long rack of complete dumbbell pairs going up to 100 lbs or more.
I was very happy and surprised to see this, because this was a weight room gym, and not a fitness center. I had not seen a weight room like this, since I worked out in the Gainesville Gym, the Daytona Gym, and the Powerhouse Gym in Florida with power lifting and body building competitors.
Starting about twenty years ago, most gyms in the United States adopted a Fitness Center model, in order to appeal to a broader range of men and women. In doing so, these gyms became more feminized, or emasculated, into Fitness Centers where achieving maximum size and strength was no longer the goal, but some vision of “general health and wellness”.
The West River Community Center in Dickinson, is one of the nicest fitness centers in the United States, and probably even the World. It has an indoor Olympic lap pool, an indoor amusement park pool, an outdoor pool, hot tub, two indoor tennis courts, four indoor racketball courts, four indoor basketball courts, one indoor volleyball court, upper level 1/5 mile jogging track, outdoor skateboard park, indoor rock climbing wall, floor exercise area, aerobics rooms and classes, thirty pieces of cardiovascular equipment, bench press benches, squat racks, dead lift platforms, dumbbells, and cable machines.
The West River Community Center also has very large men’s and women’s locker rooms with many lockers, toilets, and showers. There is also a children’s day care facility. The cost of a membership is only about $30 per month. Like I said, the West River Community Center is one of the nicest fitness centers in the United States.
However, one thing that the West River Community Center, and the Anytime Fitness in Dickinson do not have, is a heavy weight lifting area with the absence of women and children.
It does not matter that the West River Community Center has three heavy-duty squat racks and two dead lift platforms, when these squat racks and dead lift platforms are usually occupied by women or children who are only lifting just the 45 lb bar, without any weights, and doing many sets of exercises.
I think that women’s fitness magazines must have shown so many articles where a professional trainer is doing squats with just a bar inside of a squat rack, or lunges with just the bar on a dead lift platform, that this is what women think these things are for.
Squat racks, which are a heavy steel framework consisting of four vertical corner posts and overhead horizontal cross bracing, were invented about fifty years ago, to allow power lifters doing heavy squat exercises, to train without a spotter, and to help prevent a catastrophic injury or accident. A squat exercise, is where you rest the bar on your upper back, and perform a knee bend and back bend, to where your upper legs become horizontal or parallel to the floor.
High School football linemen can typically squat about 350 lbs. College football linemen can typically squat about 400 lbs. Very good competitive power lifters can squat more than 700 lbs. It is common when performing heavy squat exercises, for lifters of any age, to experience a problem. The most common problems are a sudden knee weakness, loss of balance, or loss of footing.
If a power lifter is performing heavy squat exercises inside of a squat rack, there are horizontal safety bars that are set to stop the fall of the bar and the weights if there is a problem. The horizontal safety bars inside of the squat rack, can prevent the complete and catasrophic failure of a knee or vertebrae, paralysis, death, and tremendous property damage. Without the squat rack safety bars, 400 lb to 800 lb landing on your neck or head if you slip, can be fatal.
When the women and children at the West River Community Center are taking up the squat racks using only the 45 lb bar for multiple sets of exercises, usually they don’t even have the horizontal safety bars set to help them in a fall. They don’t even really need the squat rack at all, and they are just tying up a strategic piece of training equipment and preventing others who really need it, from using it.
Most people do not know how much planning goes into even minimally competitive power lifting. Most all power lifters keep a journal/log book of completed training and planned training. They are on a very complex schedule of lift rotations, and weight levels. Whether it is squat, dead lift, or bench press, there are weeks of training with increasing weight, leading up to one specific day, and one specific time of that day, that they have set to attempt a maximum squat, dead lift, or bench press.
Adult men who are involved in power lifting, will think all week about a lift, their maximum weight attempt scheduled for a Friday at 5:00 p.m. when they get off of work. They will visualize a squat lift all week, and know all week that they plan on attempting 495 lb, 505 lb, the amount that they think they can achieve in a maximum effort for one repetition. This lift will be the culmination of weeks and weeks of training. But when they get to the West River Community Center at 5:00 p.m. on Friday to use the squat rack, there is some young lady doing squats with just the 45 lb bar, tying up the squat rack, and she doesn’t even need the squat rack.
In order to do something about this problem, Dave Clem a power lifting competitor in Dickinson, opened The Pit Gym in the Fall of 2017. Now I already wrote two paragraphs describing everything that the West River Community Center has, from the pools, basketball courts, cardio equipment, weight training equipment, men’s and women’s locker rooms. The only thing that the West River Community Center did not have, was a heavy weight lifting area for adult men, with no women and children around to get on dead lift platforms and squat racks that they did not need in the first place.
On this Saturday, 5/26/18, I was at The Pit Gym when two young men had brought their two young girlfriends with them. At first, I just tried to not pay attention to these two young women, but they were talking a lot, as this appeared to be a social outing for them, like a barbeque or going to the beach. One of the young women got on one of the bench press benches and was using just the bar with no weight. And the other young woman was all over the place, not even lifting weight most of the time, just being a distraction.
I was very angry about this, and I felt like saying to the two young men, “Are you trying to fuck this up just like the West River Community Center? The whole reason why this gym exists, is because women and children would go to the West River Community Center and get on the bench press benches, the squat racks, and the dead lift platforms, and use just the bar with no weight, fool around, and prevent other people from using the heavy weight equipment.”
I couldn’t fucking believe this. The Pit Gym is small, about 35’x 50′, it doesn’t even have locker rooms or a shower. All The Pit Gym has to offer, that is different than the West River Community Center and Anytime Fitness, are the two heavy-duty weight benches, the two heavy-duty squat racks, the dead lift platform, and the dumbbells pairs going up to 100 lbs, combined with the absence of women and children getting in the way.
If you introduce women and children into The Pit Gym, it has absolutely nothing to offer, and no reason to go there whatsoever, if all of the equipment is going to be taken up by women and children. If the squat racks, benches, and dumbbell area are going to be occupied by women, you might as well just go to the West River Community Center as it is cheaper, has more equipment, and more amenities.
I was angry and distracted by the two young women in The Pit Gym on Saturday. I left the gym without completing even half of my planned exercises, partly because I lost my focus, and partly because I did not want to do my exercises around these two young women because I thought that they might get hurt, or cause me to get hurt.
The behind the head curls that I was doing laying on my back on the weight bench, I thought that the one young girl using the adjacent weight bench was going to get hit with the bar because she did not know the range of motion that I was going to do. And I could see the same thing happening with the other young woman when I tried to do dumbbell flies.
Like I said, these two young women were treating this as a social outing, and I don’t think that they were paying enough attention or had been around weight rooms enough to know what I was going to do. Them walking into to me, the bar, or the dumbbells while I was in motion would not only have gotten them hurt, it might have gotten me hurt too.
I just left, and I was angry and disgusted. I went home and I updated the first blog post that I wrote about The Pit Gym back in December of 2017. I began thinking that maybe this is what Dave Clem and his wife Wendy want, to get as many people to join The Pit Gym as possible, even if this results in the exact same problems as what happened at the West River Community Center and Anytime Fitness in Dickinson.
I am going to finish this blog post by giving some complaints written by other people about gyms and fitness centers:
From Men’s Health, Lou Schuler 9/22/15
The gym noob who sets her water bottle and clipboard on a bench isn’t trying to piss you off. She just doesn’t know better.
A bit less forgivable are the five teens using a single leg press machine, but forming a cordon that blocks off three other stations.
Or the young woman who sits on a machine for five minutes between sets because she’s returning texts.
Don’t tie up equipment that you don’t need for the exercise that you are doing. The people who tie up squat racks when they aren’t even lifting. I’ve seen it used for stretches, or to hold onto while doing single-leg calf raises with their own body weight.
From Return of Kings, Kenzie Atkins 2/28/16
I find nothing more frustrating than walking into the gym and finding it full of women and estrogen.
Working out with other men increases your competitiveness and forces you to push yourself and improve your personal best.
Let me set the scene—you have gone into the gym with the intention of working your legs, you have a set routine, and it’s coming up to the squat part of your workout. You go to the squat rack to find that it is being used by a woman who has a bar weighing 50 lbs. (She is using just the bar, with no weight.)
We are all men, and let’s be honest we are often checking out women. There are some alright women in the gym and this can be a distraction during a time when we should be concentrating on our workout and improving ourselves.
Mixed gyms discourage this kind of fellowship by changing the dynamic. Instead of the positive competitiveness of sport, there is a tendency to compete for the “cute” girl.
Men only gyms would encourage the positive traits of brotherhood and support, while giving us a distraction free environment to improve ourselves.
I don’t know what is going to happen. Why can’t the women just stay over at the West River Community Center with the swimming pools, hot tub, tennis, racketball, basketball, volleyball, jogging track, exercise floor, aerobics rooms, yoga, cardio equipment, weight area, childcare, women’s locker room, women’s showers, and women’s toilets. They have way more equipment and amenities over there. Why the fuck can’t they stay the fuck over there?
This video shows a woman powerlifter who is serious.
This video shows a woman powerlifter who is not serious enough.
This video shows a woman getting hit with weights in the gym.
This video shows a woman taking up equipment and not using it for what it is for.
This video shows women being a distraction in the gym.
Below, I am going to show you two short YouTube videos of two very attractive young women. They are both young, healthy, thin, good looking, feminine, well spoken, reasonable, and logical. The only problem is, they are both male.
These two men, at a point in their lives after puberty, began to believe that they would prefer to be women. After they had made up their mind that they wanted to be women, they began growing their hair long, growing their finger nails longer and painting their nails, applying make up to their face, and dressing in women’s clothing.
They had to learn how to speak like women, and behave like women. They began to learn and practice female mannerisms and movements. They had to learn to become feminine in every way.
Here is the point of this blog post, these men made an effort to be feminine, soft, appealing, and attractive, to the point that they are more attractive and desirable than about 95% of the women in Dickinson, North Dakota.
In other words, with some effort, these two men are way hotter than 95% of the women in Dickinson, North Dakota. I think that this kind of proves that there is something wrong with the women in Dickinson, North Dakota, that men from elsewhere are hotter than the women in Dickinson.
This first man, is more of a coquettish type woman:
This second man, is more of a sophisticated woman:
I am sure many readers would like to comment, “Hey, go for it, he/she is all yours…ha, ha, ha.” Joking aside, 100% of the men in Dickinson would like to date these two women. And, if they found out that these two women were actually men, about 50% of the men in Dickinson would still date them, because they are so desirous of the company of women like this.
I would like to have a girlfriend like these two women, or date these two women, if they were women, because they do act so appealing. Women in Dickinson could learn a tremendous amount from these two men. Why don’t the women in Dickinson know how to put themselves together like these two men?
The beautiful 5br, 5ba home shown in the headline photograph, is 7,000 square feet, with 15 acres of landscaped property, and it has an appraised value of $1.2 million. This house is located in a rural community, where all of the other houses are similar in size, amount of property, and $1 million price range. This was Trudy’s previous home. Here is another photo of the front:
Trudy’s husband has worked in the oil industry for almost thirty years. During his career, he and his family have had to move every few years, to where his employer needed him to be. As he and his wife worked, and paid for their family home, they had more and more equity in their home. Each time that they were required to move, and sell their house, with the increased amount of equity that they had built up, and the appreciated value of their home, they were able to move into a bigger, nicer, more expensive home, until they moved to Dickinson, North Dakota.
Trudy and her husband looked and looked for a home in the Dickinson area for a couple of years, after they moved here near the end of the oil boom. Money was not an issue, it was that the home prices were very inflated, for what they were. Even $500,000 houses in the Dickinson area, did not have very nice kitchens, cabinetry, bathrooms, flooring, layout, design, build quality, or landscaping. Here is a photo of her previous home’s bathroom:
Trudy and her husband were not looking to throw their money away. They were not going to pay $400,000 to $500,000 for a home that was not very nice, where prices were over inflated and would likely come down, in an area where people were proving to be unfriendly.
Like I said already, Trudy and her husband have had to move for his work many times in the past thirty years. Trudy has had to leave her friends, acquaintances, neighbors, and familiar communities many times to start over new some place else. This also used to involve re-enrolling her two daughters in new schools and helping them to adjust and get re-oriented.
This last time, here in Dickinson, it has been nearly impossible for Trudy to make friends, though she has tried. Like me, she has mostly experienced the local women sneering, scowling, and glaring at her with animosity and disapproval.
Most women, want and need to socialize with other women. They want someone to talk to, someone to visit with, someone to talk about their family with, someone to listen to them, someone to do things with. Trudy doesn’t have this in Dickinson. Most women would go insane, or leave. Some women would probably take out all of their anger, frustration, and unhappiness on their husband. Begging, pleading, or threatening him to get them out of Dickinson.
I sometimes write about how I wish that I could go back to a normal life. People from Dickinson don’t know what I am talking about, and people who live in other states don’t know what I am talking about. If you can’t make a picture in your mind from everything that I have written about and tried to explain, I suppose that you would have to live elsewhere, then live here in Dickinson in order to understand, and I don’t mean one week, I mean at least a whole year.
Once I found out where Trudy used to live, I then knew that she fully and completely understands the difference between living in Dickinson and living elsewhere. I complain more than Trudy does, but she has had to endure a much greater reversal of fortune, hardship, suffering, and deprivation than I have. I don’t see how she has not killed her husband yet, for taking her away from what she had, and bringing her here.
Here is a photo of what Trudy’s laundry room looked like:
Note: I am sorry for the dull picture quality, which does not do justice to the pristine, sharp, and perfect condition of the interior and exterior of this house. However, on the other hand, due to the poor picture quality, there is no way for anyone to be able to find out where this house is from any detail, in any of these photographs. This house could be anywhere, in any state.
I do not think that I have given enough detail to identify Trudy. Even if someone far away from Dickinson wanted to leave a comment, saying where this house is, I would not post this comment. The only people who could correlate this house to Trudy, are people who already know a great deal about her, and I would not be giving them any information that they did not already know.
If you want to see attractive women in Dickinson, North Dakota, you’re not going to, unless you can find some on YouTube.
This video of Piper Blush was so funny, that I had to show it. Please watch this video past the first several minutes, you will see that it is worth it. Piper talks funny, partly because she is French-Canadian, and partly because she is being funny. She is not stupid at all, but in order to be likable, she doesn’t want to act like a know-it-all.
I have lived in Dickinson, North Dakota for a little over five years now. There is a shortage of women, and a scarcity of attractive women. There are very few places to go, and very few things to do, so I mostly stay inside and look at things on the internet, especially YouTube videos.
When I click on the YouTube website, the YouTube site displays about forty different YouTube channels and videos that I might be interested in. Most of these channels and videos are about Bigfoot, automobiles, exploring abandoned places, metal detecting, travelling, off-roading, and some social media personalities.
The social media personalities that I have been watching recently are VeeTwoEye, Stephi Lee, Victoria X Rave, and Poppy. Yesterday, YouTube displayed a video from a young lady named Piper Blush.
Piper Blush’s video was kind of strange, but in a good way, as far as most men are concerned. Piper is French, she has a very high pitch voice, she has a strange, almost idiotic manner of speaking, which makes her seem air headed. Unfortunately, many man are turned on by large breasted, unaware, seemingly dumb girls. I suppose this makes men feel like they would be able to seduce a girl like this. It’s like hungry wolves spotting a defenseless sheep.
Piper is not stupid, she probably understands men, better than they understand themselves. Piper has over 400,000 YouTube subscribers, and I am sure that most men watch her videos to the end. The number of views that her videos get, the amount of time spent watching each of her videos, and the number of subscribers that she has, may result in YouTube paying her anywhere from $1,500 to $5,000 per month, probably more toward the high side of this range. ( After writing this, I read that her monthly YouTube payments may be as high as $27,000 per month. Her YouTube videos have over 79 million views.)
I said that Piper Blush is French, but she is French-Canadian. Part of the way that she speaks, is a slight parody or embellishment of how people in Quebec speak, where she lives.
Piper’s videos are about ordinary, everyday things, and people watch her videos primarily because Piper is attractive, happy, and funny. Here is one of her videos:
I watched a second YouTube video of Piper, where she was washing off and asphalt driveway with a garden hose. At the end of this video, she said that she was going to spray her tight, white T-shirt, but then she said “kidding”, and walked off. This made me mad, because I wanted to see. Like most men, I would like to see Piper naked.
For better or worse, I got my wish. One of the commentors to her video, wrote that she has pornography videos on the website Pornhub. I went and looked, and yes, she does. I watched two of her pornography videos, and I felt bad for her, because you could say that “her partner was not up for it”.
Sometimes, when women shock you, it is unpleasant at first, because this could be something that you didn’t want from them or didn’t expect from them. After feeling and thinking different things, I believe that most men conclude that everyone is better off, if people are able to show, and others are able to learn, what each other is like.
In Dickinson, North Dakota where I live, I believe that most people have to hide the way that they are. There would be too many repercussions from friends, relatives, neighbors, and employers for people behaving too differently, such as attractive women getting too much attention for being friendly, dressing provocatively, or being too available for dating. This is why there are no women like Piper Blush in Dickinson, they all move away.
In order to not spoil things for you, I don’t want to tell you too much information about a young lady named Poppy who makes YouTube videos. Let me just show a couple of her videos first, they are each only about a minute long.
When I watch these videos, I like to visualize reality hitting her, something like an angry dog, redneck, or Arab chasing her down the street, or maybe hitting her toe on a sharp metal bed frame.
What began my thinking towards writing this blog post, were two things that happened yesterday. First, in the afternoon I went to a local business in Dickinson where the owner’s wife was working. She is often in a bad mood, and not very friendly. She can act this way if she wants to, I suppose, because she and her husband own this business.
Lately, I am often in bad mood myself, and I don’t feel well, I am just getting over pneumonia. When I entered this business yesterday, the owner’s wife was in a particularly bad mood, looking and sounding unfriendly, and that is kind of an understatement. I thought that maybe I should leave, and just never come back when she is working. I didn’t want this to become a business that I can not use any longer, due to getting into an altercation with the owner’s wife.
I began to consider that there are other businesses in Dickinson that provide the same thing, so if it came to it, I could just go elsewhere, not the end of the world. During the time that I was there, I noticed that there were not any other customers, and I could think of at least one reason why this was the case.
Readers of my blog posts have probably seen me write at least ten times, that I do not go out to bars and restaurants in Dickinson because the waitresses and women staff are unattractive, mean, and crazy, and the Police in Dickinson try as hard as they can to arrest people for DUI. There is no where to go and nothing to do in Dickinson, and because of the Police trying to stop everyone, I just stay in my apartment.
About the only thing that I have to do, is look up things on the internet. I have begun watching a lot of YouTube videos, whatever YouTube presents to me that looks interesting, I will watch it. Yesterday I watched a video titled “Ah, Leah”, which is a music video that showed a compilation of women wearing bikinis.
I thought that this video was funny, because it reminded me of how things were living in Florida up until I was about 32 years old. Though the women in the “Ah, Leah” video seem very attractive now, because I have been living in North Dakota for so long, these women in the video are just average women that you would see every day in Florida.
When I was growing up and going to school in Florida, in elementary, middle school, and high school, there were very few girls that were very unattractive, or very overweight. It was a combination of genetics, environment, and culture. It was relatively warm all year long, so most kids and adults were always doing activities outdoors. People in the community where I lived, which was on the ocean and the intercoastal waterway, were fairly healthy and active.
Also, part of the culture in Florida, where it was warm all year, and people go to the ocean, rivers, and lakes throughout the year, women wanted to look nice in bathing suits. Women wanted to look good to attract the attention of men, to be invited places, to be taken out, to date, and to possibly become married in the future.
Another reason why women wanted to look good, was because they wanted to be invited to socialize with other women. Women naturally recognize the importance of networking, social networks, and the advantages of being accepted and liked by other women. It may seem a mean thing to say, but I have noticed this to be true everywhere that I have ever been, women try to seek out attractive women to be friends with, because they see this as advantageous to them.
Women see and believe that the best looking women have access to the best looking men, the most successful men, the men with the best connections, the best employment opportunities, the most glamorous employment opportunities, offers for travel, offers to attend exclusive events and parties, and opportunities to meet and socialize with wealthy, influential people. Women in Florida just looked at it as an all around good idea to stay in shape, and to look healthy and attractive.
When I was a kid, this was in the 1970s, many people went to the beach on the weekends or they went boating. My mother did not like to go the beach so much when I was a kid, though when she was younger, before I was born, she liked to. I think that this was primarily because my mother had gained weight in her 40s, and she did not feel comfortable being seen in a bathing suit by everyone.
My mother did like to go boating when I was young, so this is what we did on the weekends with other families. Younger families usually started out boating with an eighteen foot ski boat, or multi purpose fishing boat. On Saturday afternoon, the families would go out on the intercoastal river and travel several miles down the river to meet up at an island or a sand bar.
All of the families brought an ice chest or two, filled with soft drinks, beer, wine, snacks, and sandwiches. The adults would park their beach chairs in several inches of water, and sit down to bullshit, catch up on news, unwind, and get drunk.
The kids could all run around like wild animals on the sand bars, screaming and yelling, because there was no where they could go, you could see them, and there wasn’t much that they could get hurt on. On the islands, the kids would go exploring, especially if you told them that there were wild horses, or a hermit, or something.
There would typically be about thirty people parked at one spot on a sand bar or an island. The group of friends and acquaintances, some of them had gone all the way through school together, sometimes even college. They usually had social and business involvement together in the community. Typically, someone would bring a new person with them, who was a friend, relative, co-worker, or business associate, who they thought would enjoy everything.
The group that my parents were friends with, and associated with for practically their entire lives, were real estate agents and brokers, insurance agents and company owners, appraisers, accountants, CPAs, attorneys, pilots, nurses, sales reps, contractors, business owners, and a few trades people. I will go ahead and show the video now of the women in bikinis, because when I was a kid, this is how the women, wives, and mothers looked:
Yup, the real estate agents, insurance agents, accountants, school teachers, attorneys, sales reps, nurses, and wives looked like this at the beach and out boating when I was a kid in Florida in the 1970s. I didn’t know that this was unusual, I just took it for granted.
When some women, wives, and mothers got to be in their late 30s or 40s, they didn’t want to go to the beach anymore, or boating anymore. Their view on life completely changed. They once loved the sun, the water, wearing hardly any clothes, and getting drunk on the weekends, but they changed completely.
I want to explain the departure in women, where some women kept right on going like they always had, and some women completely changed.
There were some women, especially real estate brokers and agency owners, who kept right on going like they always had, enjoying every weekend, partying, and having a good time, into their sixties. Other women in their late 30s or 40s, they retreated into their homes, not coming outside, refusing to go anywhere, and preferring to stand at their kitchen counter trying to give orders to their children and husbands, seemingly trying to unnecessarily make everyone else unhappy, because they were unhappy.
When I was in my teens, and would go to the beach or boating, there were some women, wives, and mothers, who were in their 40s, who were still good looking, friendly, fun, and were nice to be around. There were some married men who had taken up with unofficial younger girlfriends, some men who had become divorced who had younger girlfriends, and some men who had remarried to younger women.
In general, myself, my older sister, my father, my mother, and all of the men and women who continued to enjoy going to the beach, boating, sailing, and flying, we all completely understood why men who were married took up with younger girlfriends, or became divorced and took up with younger girlfriends, once their wife who was in her late 30s or 40s, refused to come outside or go anywhere, and instead wanted to spoil everyone’s good time.
I could say that I don’t know what happens, where you start out with a young 120 lb girlfriend or wife, who likes swimming in the ocean or river, water skiing, being wrestled with and thrown around in the waves while squealing with glee, wearing hardly any or no clothes, boating, sailing, sports cars, and motorcycles, and she later changes into someone who refuses to go anywhere and do anything, and instead wants to be nasty to everyone, glaring, sneering, scowling, trying to stare people down and start fights, but I suppose that I do know what happens.
Today when I typed in “YouTube” on my Google search browser, and then clicked on the YouTube site, I saw about thirty suggested videos from YouTube. The first video to catch my attention, was from a young hippie girl named Stephi Lee, where she was crying because she had gotten into a car accident.
In the past, I have watched about twenty YouTube videos from Stephi Lee. I like her, she is cute, I like some of her videos, but she also makes me mad. It was good that Stephi made four of five videos explaining her situation, or more people would hate her, and I would hate her more.
At first, I saw that she was very cute, and I thought that she was very attractive. Why she was wearing her hair in dread locks, getting so many tattoos, living like a hippie, sleeping in her car, and not working at a job, were questions that I had, and I thought that she was throwing her life away, wasting her life, being lazy, and acting stupid.
As Stephi explained her life in her videos, I could more understand why Stephi was the way that she was, and I could see more of why she was doing what she was doing.
Several weeks ago, I wrote a blog post about watching Stephi Lee videos, where I explained that she had mutism until the fourth grade, only speaking to some members of her family. Her mother died when she was 11 years old. That she was born with cystic fibrosis, where she only has about 45% lung capacity, and it causes her difficulty every day, even just in speaking. Plus more problems besides that, that I didn’t even want to repeat, because she has so many problems.
Women don’t think that men should ever say this, especially women with tattoos, but I began to have more patience and tolerance with Stephi, when she was showing and explaining her twenty tattoos. I was thinking that she was so pretty, why would she ruin herself with so many tattoos? Or, when she was showing and explaining that she didn’t shave her arm pits, legs, or pubic area, I was wondering if she wasn’t somehow trying to alienate people, and drive people away.
As I watched more and more of Stephi’s videos, and I learned more about her, being aware of her health problems, tattoos, hairy arm pits, living in her car, and watching the things that she was doing, I liked her personality, I liked some of the things that she was doing, but I sometimes came to the conclusion that overall what she was doing, was being defiant.
I came to believe and feel that Stephi, in the way that she lived and the things that she did, she was being defiant, and in a way trying to alienate people, drive people away, and push people away. I believed that if she chose to be more normal, she could have a job, a home, a boyfriend, a husband, not be alone, be safe, and be comfortable.
I suppose that I am missing the point, Stephi doesn’t want to be normal. But can you, or should you, feel sorry for people who practically do everything that they can, to ensure that they are going to have problems? To move far away from home where they do not know anyone, and then be alone and not have anyone to help them. To want to meet and associate with counter culture people who do not have jobs or money, and then not know anyone who can help them with a job or money. To want to spend time with boys that do not have a job and live at home with their parents, and then not have a man to rely on when they need help. To avoid and make fun of people who have a steady job and a place to live, but then in an emergency turn to these people as the only ones who are able to provide any real help.
For the past month, I have watched YouTube videos from various women, who are having problems. They have a problem with their motor home breaking down, some piece of equipment not working, someone bothering them during the night, not having a place to stay, not having a job, needing money, not knowing what to do, going to therapy….and getting a new tattoo.
I thought about these women, and then I realized something. For the past 6,000 years or so, how this was handled, was women had husbands. Here is how this works, in return for sex, and some domestic work, men will build a shelter, provide protection, and find a way to obtain food and other things that they need.
For about 6,000 years or so, women have not liked their husbands. Their husbands were too ugly, too fat, too short, too smelly, too stupid, too controlling, and they didn’t provide as much as they wanted. But what were women going to do, what else could they do?
In the past 50 years in the United States, women have gotten it into their heads more and more, that they don’t need a man, they can have their own job, their own money, and their own home. However, whether women realize it or not, when they are making YouTube videos where they don’t have a job, they don’t have any money, they don’t have anywhere to stay, they don’t have anyone to help them, and they are frightened, the solution to this problem has been around for 6,000 years or so.
Here is Stephi Lee’s YouTube video after she got into a car accident with the car that she lives in, while on the way to hospital when she was crying and coughing up blood:
I felt so bad for Stephi, that I was thinking about sending her some money, like $100, and I believed that many of her other viewers were going to do the same thing. I saw that this particular video has 57,000 views, and that she received about 1,000 comments to this video from people offering her help in different ways.
I would think that it was good, if people and her viewers helped Stephi get back on her feet. Stephi has a Patreon account where some viewers have signed up to contribute money to her every month. What I don’t think would be good, would be for well meaning people to contribute so much money, that she received a windfall from this. The reason why is, because I believe if a person does so many things to get themselves into a position where they are bound to have problems, like choosing to not associate with people who have jobs, earn a living, have a place to stay, and can help you, don’t reward people for getting themselves into a position where they have problems.
When I was in my mid 30s, and working as a caregiver for terminally ill adults and later doing self employed contracting work, I noticed something strange about women.
Married women who had everything that they wanted, were often very welcoming and nice to me, whereas single women who were struggling, ran from me like they were frightened.
As a typical example, when I was hired by a housewife to do some work at her home, when I arrived on time in the morning, she was happy to see me. She was happy to see my work truck with all of the ladders on its ladder rack, all of my tool boxes in the truck bed, and my large flat bed equipment trailer.
Though my work boots were scuffed, and my jeans had some paint marks on them, I was clean, not dirty, and I didn’t smell. I didn’t play loud music, I didn’t yell, I didn’t use bad language, I didn’t bring anyone questionable with me, I didn’t have many people calling me on the telephone, or anyone stopping by. The housewives were happy with my work, that I did what I said I was going to do, for the price that I said, and that I cleaned everything up when I was done.
The married women that I worked for, who had nice large homes, and vacation homes, they kept my phone number, and would call me from time to time. They would also say hello to me when they saw me in town and in stores.
On the other hand, when I got done working for a nice housewife, and I went to the grocery store in my work truck, young single women would run from me and my truck like I was going to get them. Inside the grocery store, when I was merely shopping for food, young single women would try to avoid me, because they were certain that I was going to do something to them that they wouldn’t like.
The difference in women’s behavior was so blatant, that I was interested to know what was going on in their minds. After thinking about it for quite a while, it came down to the Chicken and the Egg question, which came first, the chicken or the egg?
Were the women who were polite, friendly, and welcoming to me, were they this way because they had everything that they wanted, or, or, did these women have everything that they wanted because they were polite, friendly, and welcoming with people?
I really started to believe, that the women who were polite, friendly, and welcoming with me, were probably like this for most of their lives. When they were young, it wouldn’t be surprising that men would want a woman like this to be his wife, they were so pleasant and agreeable. A woman like this, would probably have the interest of many men, and she would be able to choose the one that she thought would be the best or most successful.
Conversely, the single women who ran from me in parking lots because I drove a work truck and was wearing construction worker clothes, believing that I was going to rape them, or tried to avoid me while shopping because they believed that I was going to do something to them that they wouldn’t like, these women were quick to find fault with anyone, and they rubbed people the wrong way.
One type of woman sees a man, and she thinks of what he might be good at, what work that she might get him to do for her. Another type of woman sees a man, and she thinks that he is going to follow her home, tie her up, and rape her.
One type of woman could get a boyfriend in five minutes by being friendly and positive, whereas some women can’t get a boyfriend in five years because they are so negative and fault finding.
But I think that there is a third aspect to all of this. The married women that I worked for that had everything that they wanted, a large home, and a vacation home, who were very friendly with me, yes I can see why they were able to get a good husband, they were friendly, positive, and agreeable. However, when I thought about it some more, they might be the reason why their husband was successful. It wasn’t just that they were able to pick a husband that was most likely to be successful, they might have been one of the reasons why their husband was successful.
The friendly, welcoming, positive wives, they were encouraging, they had faith in you. They were not negative, doubtful, or fault finding. I wanted to do a good job for them, I wanted them to be pleased, I didn’t want to let them down. I can imagine that their husbands felt the same way.
Can you imagine having a wife that was encouraging, supportive, positive, who believed in you, who didn’t say and do mean things to you? Wouldn’t it be easier to go to work in the morning, wouldn’t you want to do better?
The single women, that think, talk, and act like every man that they encounter is dirty, bad, and has bad intentions towards them, they don’t care that they are creating a bad impression with men. These women are often struggling in just about every aspect of their lives, not advancing in employment, not making much money, being forced to live in low rent housing, only being able to afford a cheap automobile, struggling financially, not being invited to participate socially, very few social contacts. They don’t realize that their struggles originate with them finding fault with everyone else, particularly men, and that they are alienating most people, especially men.
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