Western North Dakota’s outlook and approach to sex and sexuality is backwards and repressive. Even before the most recent oil boom that took place from 2007 through 2014, there was a much greater number of men than women in Western North Dakota. During the oil boom, the ratio of men to women in Dickinson was probably about 3:1, in Watford City and Williston it was probably as high as 8:1.
The worst possible approach to the lack of women in Western North Dakota, was to encourage or force Law Enforcement to not allow any prostitution whatsoever. People like the big, overweight, unattractive Senator Heidi Heitkamp were so against men trying to find women for sex, that she advocated for every possible scheme that Law Enforcement could come up with to entrap men seeking to have sex with women.
It seems like it was a team effort of Heidi Heitkamp and other big, overweight, unattractive women to prevent men from having sex. I don’t know exactly when, where, how, and why Western North Dakotans got the idea that sex was wrong, immoral, wicked, and evil. People and animals have been having sex for a long time, since the beginning of creation.
A few blog posts ago, I included a YouTube video from the spiritual teacher named Teal Swan, about sex, and the normalcy of sexual expression.
In this blog post, I want to include a YouTube video from the sexual education teacher named Dr. Lindsey Doe. Dr. Lindsey Doe has over one hundred short YouTube videos about sex, which are very to-the-point, open, and entertaining.
I am trying to make North Dakotans understand, that sex is completely normal. It is completely normal for men to seek to have sex with women. When there is a shortage of women in an area, one of the easiest and best solutions, would be to allow prostitution.
When you take the approach of North Dakota, to try to make normal adult heterosexual sex illegal, and even have Law Enforcement try to entrap men when they seek to have sex with women, you are creating the situations that we often read about in the North Dakota newspapers where sexually depraved men are accused of seeking or forcing sex with minors, children, and animals. If you didn’t make normal adult sex with women in North Dakota illegal, maybe so many men wouldn’t become sexually depraved and sexually assault women, minors, children, and animals.
Here is one video from Dr. Lindsey Doe, where she explains the normalcy of being propositioned by men:
I highly recommend visiting Dr. Lindsey Doe’s YouTube channel to browse the many topics that she addresses.