I hesitated to write this blog post, I didn’t want to give this secret away. On Facebook, I have found so much information about people in Dickinson in a short time, that would have otherwise taken me about fifteen years of living in Dickinson to find out. I have written in about 40% of my blog posts, that there had been a shortage of women in Dickinson. During the first year that I lived in Dickinson, I thought that there was some genetic reason why nobody here had attractive daughters. Later I found out that the attractive women were just hiding. I found out that if you went to the grocery store before 5:00 p.m., before the oil field workers got off work, you would see some attractive women shopping.
In Dickinson, I wasted probably two years of my life trying to look for women to date on internet dating sites. I found out, that if a nice looking woman has to advertise on an internet dating site to get asked out, she is probably driving men away in person. This is an understatement.
One day in Dickinson, I met an attractive young waitress, and I later looked her up on Facebook. On Facebook, she had all of her “friends” listed. I could not help looking at some of her attractive “friends” profiles on Facebook. I was just viewing Facebook profiles, when I started to realize, this is telling me a lot. It was like someone was taking the time to tell me who everybody was in Dickinson. I could see who everyone’s friends, family members, boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives were, where they worked, where they went to school. A tremendous amount of information.
I still to this day don’t know where all of these good looking women in Dickinson hide most of the time, but I know a lot more about their behavior. They like to list other good looking women as “friends”, they do not like to show ugly “friends”. Good looking women like to go places. It seems like for them, the point in going to some of the places they go, is to take pictures of them being there. It appears that the young women in Dickinson most often date people that they went to high school with, or people that they work with.
I suppose if a guy wanted to, he could look on Facebook, pick any young woman he wanted to date, look at her pictures, read where she works, read what her interests are, and then go see her at her job at Ace Hardware. “Yes, I’m here to buy some sealant for my turtle’s aquarium.”. “Oh wow! You have a turtle too?”. “Yes, I got him after my bar mitzvah.”. “Oh wow! You’re Jewish too, so am I.”
Anyway, as I mentioned in a recent post, I have more than enough young women around me now that 80% of the oil field workers have left the state, and I don’t want any more. I look at some young women’s profiles on Facebook in order to see how bad an idea it would be for me to date them.
I don’t want to talk about looking at women on Facebook any more right now, in order to talk about some other important things. I have written about the Dickinson Mafia in about eight of my blog posts. They are a group of men who have had a great deal of control over what goes on in Dickinson, for many years. They are not all bad, they have accomplished some good things, but they had a hand in keeping wages low in Dickinson up until this most recent oil boom. Just as the pretty women on Facebook like to show other pretty women as “friends”, the Dickinson Mafia like to show other connected people, and their minions as “friends”.
Just as I met one pretty girl, and then found her “friends” on Facebook, I looked at the Dickinson Mafia “friends”. It’s funny, none of the Dickinson Mafia friends have hard labor jobs, or even difficult jobs. Most of the Dickinson Mafia friends have gone to college, which is not typical for Dickinson. Though their male offspring sometimes look weak and not sharp, they still have good looking wives. I’m not too interested in criticizing the Dickinson Mafia right now, I am trying to point out that they look after their own.
If I hadn’t known before, I know now, that I will never get very far in Dickinson. I am not from here, I didn’t go to school here, I didn’t marry the right person’s daughter, and I didn’t curry favor with the Dickinson Mafia. Like I started out saying at the beginning of this post, Facebook showed me what it might have taken fifteen years of living in Dickinson to find out: who is who, who knows who, who is related to who, and that’s how that works.
Before some readers go and get depressed, and other readers gloat that everything is as it should be in Dickinson, I want to point out that Dickinson is changing. There is a likelihood that those who mistreated and took advantage of other people during the past several years will reap what they have sewn, especially the landlords, property managers, and property investors. Keep me posted on Facebook when you go bankrupt.
That other thing about not being successful if the Dickinson Mafia don’t want you to be, if Dickinson is prohibitive to people making money, there won’t be many people staying in Dickinson. The Dickinson Mafia could end up owning a bunch of failed businesses and property that is worth nothing if too many people move away.