It is O.K. to proposition married women for sex in Dickinson, North Dakota. This is the way the City of Dickinson, the Dickinson Police Department, the people in Dickinson, and the elected representatives like Heidi Heitkamp want things to be.
The ratio of men to women in Dickinson is about 3:1. In the surrounding towns and adjacent towns like Belfield, Richardton, New England, Killdeer, and Watford City there are even fewer women. In some of these towns the ratios are more like 5:1, or 8:1.
There is a shortage of women. There is a scarcity of attractive women. Law enforcement agencies like the City of Dickinson Police Department have decided that they are not going to allow prostitution.
Today I read a newspaper article dated June 26, 2017 where the City of Dickinson Police Department conducted an operation where they arrested seven men locally here in Dickinson for seeking a prostitute. This particular newspaper article did not go into the details of how this police operation was carried out, but I believe it was probably the same thing that the police in Williston and Bismarck do, put an advertisement for an escort on the website Backpage, and arrest the men when they show up for their appointment.
I have written about five or six blog posts on prostitution in Dickinson, North Dakota. Besides there being a shortage of women and a scarcity of attractive women, it is a fact that many women in Dickinson are tired of being propositioned by men where they work, when they shop, anywhere and everywhere they go. It is also a fact that men don’t want to waste their time, embarrass themselves, and bother women who are not interested in a relationship with them. It would be a solution for both men and women in Dickinson, for men to look up on the internet women who do want to have sex, and arrange for an appointment with them, however this is not going to be allowed.
There are many men that are older, overweight, or unattractive that are living and working in Dickinson, that are not going to be able to obtain a wife or a girlfriend because they are not handsome, and there are simply not enough women for every man that is here. There are many men that recognize that they are not in a position to be married or have children in Dickinson, because their employment and housing is very uncertain. It would be possible for these men to have the company of women some times, for money, but not possible otherwise.
When prostitution is illegal, this is when you get the drug addicted prostitutes, crime, and career criminal pimps. The whole thing becomes a criminal enterprise, when the prostitutes and clients are engaging in illegal activity, it causes there to be theft, abuse, drugs, extortion, and violence that would not happen if it were legal.
A person does not usually face the threat of robbery, drugs, and violence when they hire a painter, a house cleaner, a masseuse, a dog groomer, a roofer, or any other service person or contractor that they meet at their home or apartment. It should not matter to anyone in Dickinson whether their neighbor has hired a masseuse, a dog groomer, a house cleaner, a painter, or a prostitute.
I am not going to waste any more time in this blog post arguing and explaining that mathematically there are not enough women in Dickinson for every man to have a wife or a girlfriend, that prostitution is a solution to this problem, and that many women in Dickinson are tired of being propositioned by men. We must deal with reality, and what the Dickinson Police will allow.
I recommend to men, that every where they go in Dickinson, from now on, that they say to as many women as possible, “Hello, I think you are attractive. Would you like to have dinner with me tonight?” Or, “Hello, I think that you are attractive. Would you like to come over to my apartment?” This is not illegal, yet. If you have had difficulty meeting women or finding women who want to be romantically involved, you are going to have to ask as many women as possible. It may turn out, that you have to ask thirty women for one of them to say yes, or you may have to ask ninety women for one of them to say yes.
Every now and then, you will get a woman who will turn on you, and will want to yell at you. She will come to a stop in the parking lot of the Family Fare grocery store and say, “What the hell is wrong with you people that keep asking me out or keep asking me to come home with them, who don’t even know me?” Be polite and apologetic, and say, “I know ma’am, I apologize. I was really just wanting to hire a prostitute, but the Dickinson Police won’t allow that, and I don’t want to get arrested and lose my job. I’ve got two kids that I have to pay child support on, and I work all the time.” She will just stomp off, being more angry at the Dickinson Police than you.
Eventually, when the attractive housewives in Dickinson pitch enough fits with their husbands, refuse to do shopping any more, refuse to do errands, and start talking about leaving Dickinson, with or without them, or start talk about going home with the men that keep asking them out, then there will be meetings and changes at the City of Dickinson Police Department where they will quit interfering with prostitution in Dickinson.